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Articles / Delay and frustration in adoption law's first year
« on: December 31, 2023, 04:19:34 PM »
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cp3dx01v8x8o

Delay and frustration in adoption law's first year

Eimear Flanagan
BBC News NI

Published
3 October 2023

An Irish law that gave adopted people the right to access their birth records has led to more than 10,000 applications during its first year of operation.  The Birth Information and Tracing Act, external was designed to end much of the secrecy embedded in Ireland's 70-year-old adoption system.  But for many adoptees waiting decades for answers about their early lives, the new procedures meant delays and frustration.  The legislation created a new family tracing service and throughout the year 5,500 requests to find relatives were submitted.  However, due to the complexity of some searches, 53% of tracing requests are yet to be allocated to staff.  "I am relying on a system that is working at a snail's pace," said Linda Southern, who is searching for her birth parents.

The 48-year-old Dubliner was adopted in 1975 at six weeks of age.  She spent her first 47 years not knowing her birth name nor the names of her mother and father.  That is because until 3 October 2022, Irish adoptees had no automatic right to see their own birth certificates, nor to know their biological parents' identities.  The new law was supposed to give adoptees access to birth records within 30 days, or 90 days in complex cases.  Two organisations tasked with releasing records struggled to handle an early surge of applications.  The Adoption Authority of Ireland (AAI) and child and family agency Tusla both missed statutory deadlines.  "The initial surge led to wait times which would be frustrating and which we regret," said AAI interim chief executive Colm O'Leary.

"When you're starting off a process and you're learning that records are held across various sources, it takes time to become familiar with all of the record types," he explained.

A Tusla spokeswoman said "a significant portion of the applications are classified as complex which means they require more time".

But adoptees argue authorities should have been better prepared.  "Surely, state bodies would have had a basic idea of the number of adoptees who would want to at least get their birth information," said Ms Southern.

After initial delays, she received her own documents which for the first time revealed her original name and parents' names.  However, she still needs help finding her biological family and spent the past year waiting for news.  "I don't know if they will ever trace my birth mother or not.  If they can't, I should be told," she said.

"They should have presumed the majority would want to trace better to presume that too many people would wish to trace birth families than too few."

'Belfast baby'

Loraine Jackson had hoped her birth files might shed some light on her cross-border adoption.  She grew up in Dublin, with barely any information about her birth.  But in her early 40s, she found out she was actually a native of the United Kingdom, having been born to a single mother in Belfast in 1948.  Her parents died years before she could trace them.  When she spoke to BBC News NI last year, she expressed hope her files might reveal how or why she was taken across the border for adoption.  After months of waiting, a "fat package" arrived in the post which included an unredacted version of her adoption agreement.  For the first time, she saw her relatives' signatures and finally found out who authorised her adoption.  "My birth mother had not been present at the signing. Her sister signed for her," Ms Jackson explained.

She also expected her files would contain information about the standard of care she received in Bethany children's home in Dublin.  But apart from a photocopy of her name in Bethany's admission book, she was disappointed.  "The information just didn't seem to be there. Whether records were not kept as well in those days, I don't know."

Although left with many unanswered questions, her maternal aunt's role in her adoption was new information to her.  "It was definitely worthwhile doing, and I'd advise anyone who hasn't applied yet to go for it."

AAI staff received a wide range of feedback from adoptees about their birth files from delight to disappointment to disbelief.  "A lot of people have said: 'Is that it? Is there nothing else?'" Mr O'Leary said.

He acknowledged some adoptees were dismayed to learn that nothing more exists on file than details they already knew.  Others have received heavily censored documents.  "Sometimes the authority gets records that are already redacted prior to us getting them we cannot unredact it," Mr O'Leary explained.

He also said AAI staff can apply redactions themselves, in cases where personal information refers to a third party.  However, he added applicants can request a review if they believe files were "inappropriately redacted".  The interim chief executive acknowledged the AAI's 12 social workers have "significant" tracing workloads.  But he said tracing "is not a linear process" and adoptees often pause the search themselves to digest new information.  "You're dealing with a very emotive situation," Mr O'Leary said.

"People may initiate a trace, thinking that their birth mother would want to hear from them, and they have to take on board that the birth mother does not want contact."

But the new law produced positive outcomes too - the AAI's tracing service has facilitated 44 family reunions.  "Sometimes I'll go to the kitchen and I'll see a social worker taking out the fancy crockery and making tea" Mr O'Leary said.

"They're bringing it into a room where a family is being reunited."

He added that when staff help connect families "there is a sense of success, and of delivering on the legislation".

The AAI's backlog of birth record applications is almost cleared and by last week, just 56 were outstanding.  Tusla has a much larger backlog which it expects to clear by June 2024.  It said from 1 September, all new applications are being processed "within statutory timelines".

If you are affected by the issues raised in this story, help and support can be found at BBC Action Line.

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Articles / Life 'amazing' after adopting triplets - Coventry couple
« on: December 31, 2023, 03:57:05 PM »
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-coventry-warwickshire-67754231

Life 'amazing' after adopting triplets - Coventry couple

21 December

By Vanessa Pearce
BBC News, West Midlands

A couple who have adopted three-year-old triplets said life had become "much more amazing and stressful and fun".

Paul and Richard have spent years making Christmas special for their local community in Coventry, putting on spectacular light shows and raising more then ?30,000 for charity.  Now they are set to spend their first Christmas as an extended family after adopting the children in July.  "It's changed the whole thing, it's going to be crazy," said Paul.

"We went into the adoption process not knowing what to expect, but it is almost like it was meant to be."

The couple said they had always wanted children but had not previously considered taking on three of them at once.  "Last January I was looking through the online forum where details of the children were, when I spotted these triplets and thought there was no way would we get them, no way would we be able to help them," the 42-year-old electrician explained.

"Unbeknown to me my other half Richard had also spotted them."

He said they had talked through the decision, taking into consideration the cost and space in the house.  "Everyone was saying how mad we were," said Paul, "but every negative each of us brought up, one of us found a positive to overcome it.  The way it has worked out has been absolutely amazing."

The process of applying to adopt had been "gruelling," he added, "but it's so rewarding, they're so adorable, they're just a joy to be around."

Richard, 39, described the adoption process as "quite intense and very intrusive" but said, now they were home and settled with the children, to have Christmas with their own little family was "just beautiful".  Paul said the couple had been supported by the adoption agency and local authority.  "They've both been fully on board with us," he added.

The couple were nominated for a BBC CWR Make A Difference Award for being good neighbours, for their annual Coundon Christmas light show.  Paul said he had first been inspired to put up decorations as a 12-year-old after spotting a neighbour's display.  "I bought some lights with my pocket money and stuck them in the tree," he said.

"And each year it got bigger and bigger and the family started coming around, and then the neighbours."

About 500 people attended this year's lights switch-on, a first for their new family.  "The music was playing and the lights were flashing, they took in the crowds and were excited," he said.

"But they just kept thinking it was their party and were so happy about that.  I know we've given them a secure home for them to grow up in, but I think it's made our family complete by them being here - it's such a warm feeling."

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https://www.brusselstimes.com/838673/catholic-church-put-up-30000-children-for-adoption-without-mothers-consent

Catholic Church put up 30,000 children for adoption without mothers' consent
Thursday, 14 December 2023
By The Brussels Times with Belga

The Catholic Church sold around 30,000 children to adoptive parents without their mother's consent or knowledge, new testimonies reported by Het Laatste Nieuws reveal.  Created just after World War Two, institutions run by nuns took in underage girls and pregnant unmarried women until the late 1980s. These women were subjected to unpaid labour, humiliating conditions, and in some cases, sexual abuse.  During childbirth, some women were given general anaesthetic while others had to wear a mask all ways to prevent mothers from seeing their child, who were immediately separated after birth. Some women were even sterilised. Others were forced to sign a document renouncing their child or were told the child was stillborn.  The children were then sold for large sums between 10,000 and 30,000 Belgian francs (roughly between ?250 and ?750), sometimes much more to adoptive families.  Unkept or destroyed files are now making reunion processes extremely difficult, says Debby Mattys (57), who was put up for adoption by the nuns and spent over 20 years looking for her birth mother. "My mother was 18 years old when she had an unwanted pregnancy," she told Het Laaste Nieuws.

"The Church has a crushing responsibility. Not just for what happened in the past even now they still abuse power by allowing files to disappear or because they do not actively cooperate in the inspection of files. Apologies are nice, but they don't buy us anything."

In 2015, the Bishops' Conference apologised to the victims of forced adoptions in Catholic institutions at the Flemish Parliament.  In response to recent testimonies, the bishops have expressed their compassion for victims' pain and trauma. The Church is calling for an independent investigation into the conditions described by the women involved.

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https://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/article/failed-adoption

As someone who was adopted as a baby, I'm here to tell you that no child should be treated like an unwanted Christmas gift, no matter how much trauma we come with

?Adoption is not like pick-n-mix."

By Michele Theil
3 December 2021

Earlier this week, BBC Woman?s Hour posted a clip of their interview with former BBC journalist Eleanor Bradford to talk about her experiences of adoption, and specifically about her ?heartbreaking? decision to return her adopted child to care after eight years.  I am an adoptee myself, who was lucky to be adopted shortly after birth and given a better life than I probably would have had elsewhere. When I saw this pop up on Twitter, I was curious, but what she said appalled me. Bradford said that she decided to give her son back into care because of his behavioural issues, which caused problems for her other son (they are biological brothers), in what is termed by professionals as a ?failed adoption.?  Failed adoptions do not happen often, with chief executive at the charity Adoption UK saying that ?only around 3 to 4%? occur each year.

But, what happens in these situations are extremely private and are usually on the recommendation of professionals who feel that a child might be better served elsewhere. It is incredibly rare that an adoptive mother would choose to ?return? their child to care like an unwanted Christmas gift.  She mentioned that though the family feels ?an emptiness? from the absence of her son, she said it wasn?t ?entirely negative? because she now could place her bag on the table. In a piece written for The Sunday Times over the weekend, Bradford explained that her son was ?determined to create a chaotic environment,? and implied that he was prone to theft, thus forcing her to lock away her purse and hide the key from him. Luckily for her, she no longer has to do that!  Though Bradford claims this decision was best for all involved, and has ?reset? her relationship with her son, she entirely overlooked the trauma associated with this decision, compounding the feelings of abandonment he likely experienced prior to adoption.  Plus, there has been a lack of consideration as to how his younger brother might feel about this. Bradford?s decision to adopt both boys was to keep them from being separated in the first place, but because one didn?t turn out perfect, the brothers were separated anyway.  She wrote, ?the younger one is a joy to parent: a poster boy for adoption,? which is an abhorrent way to discuss adoption.

Adoption is not like pick-n-mix, you don?t get to throw away the imperfect ones. What about the long-lasting trauma for the younger child, who may feel like every little mistake could be the reason he is sent away like his brother?

I was never a ?perfect child?, and in many respects, I certainly do not live up to some expectations that were set for me at a young age. My mum wanted me to be a lawyer, live at home in Hong Kong, and live up to the ideal of a ?perfect Chinese daughter?. Instead, I am a journalist living in the U.K, miles away from being a ?perfect Chinese daughter? but this isn?t a reason for abandonment.  Bradford also said: ?It?s ironic that we have done so much to give those children a better life, and yet when it goes wrong, we are unsupported, and we can?t speak out.?, arguing that there is a taboo faced by people who go through ?failed adoptions.?

Her rhetoric, and the framing of her situation by the BBC, suggests that she is a kind-hearted person who fell victim to the failures of the adoption and care system, with her distress being more paramount than the care deserved by her child.   Centring herself in the narrative, she did not mention how her son reacted to being ?left behind? again, forced back into care after eight years with who he thought was his ?forever family?. She adds that she ?is still his mum?, and that the family stay in regular contact with him. But children, whether adopted or biological, should not be treated this way.

The ?stigma? that Bradford says she has faced for her decision is well and truly justified: adopted children should not be treated like a crappy gift from a distant relative, we can?t be sent back for store credit.  We deserve respect and we deserve to have loving families who will support us through ups and downs, just like you would a biological child. If a biological child was acting out and exhibiting ?behavioural issues,? you would likely seek counselling or behavioural adjustment therapy, perhaps send them to a new school with more structure, or a number of other solutions you wouldn?t give them away or leave them to fend for themselves.  Parents face a myriad of issues from their children, which can involve drinking, drugs, teenage pregnancy, bad grades, stealing, or anything else they may disapprove of. What they do in such situations is individual to the needs of the parent and the child, but I would bet that the majority of parents out there would stand by and support their children unconditionally, if they can, because that?s their child. Adopted children should not be treated differently when an adoptive parent signs on the dotted line agreeing to care for that child, they become yours for life.  As an adoptee who definitely ticked off almost every box on the ?difficult teenager? checklist, I cannot be more thankful that my adoptive parents did not make the same decision as Bradford. I often stayed out all night drinking, would shoplift for the thrill, and have experimented with drugs. But, not once did they ever consider ?sending me back? because I was their child, for better or for worse.  There are so many families in the UK who want children and I?m sure many of them would find Bradford?s decision abhorrent as they would do anything to have a child, including one that may have a disability or be neurodivergent, like her son. But, unlike most of them, she gave up on helping her child overcome the challenges that he faced.  I am not the only person, nor the only adoptee who feels this way. Deputy Editor of The Face Magazine Jessica Morgan tweeted yesterday: ?As someone who is adopted, I find this woman absolutely repulsive. Children are not toys, nor are they disposable like this. If you adopt a child, you do the work. Yes, we come with baggage, trauma, issues, even mental health issues and putting them back in care only hurts them more.?

There are countless more tweets and reactions to Bradford?s story, all expressing the same shock and disapproval at her son being sent back to care, as well as her choice to publicly announce it like it is something to be proud of.  Adoption is a very noble prospect, and those that can give children a home are to be lauded. But, giving away your adopted child just because you couldn?t deal with them is not acceptable, and it is important to remember that adoptees are not toys, they are real people who will be devastatingly affected by these decisions.

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https://www.irishcentral.com/roots/history/jane-russell-adopt-irish-baby

Actress Jane Russell's adoption of Irish baby nearly ended her career
The glamourous Hollywood star?s career nearly came to an end after she controversially adopted an Irish baby in 1951.
James Wilson
@jameswilson1919
Feb 03, 2023

Hollywood star Jane Russell?s adoption of an Irishwoman?s child in 1952 nearly ended the actress?s career.  Russell had already adopted a girl with her husband, NFL quarterback, and kicker Bob Waterfield, but wanted to expand their family, according to TheJournal.ie.  News of the star?s desire for another child reached Hannah McDermott, a Derry woman then living in London with her husband and young son. Reportedly Hannah offered her custody of baby Thomas on condition that Jane and Bob provided him with a good home, love, and education.  When the news made the papers, the controversy rippled across the world and young McDermott suddenly found her home in London besieged by photographers.  Local historian Willie Deery told the Belfast Telegraph he believes McDermott was motivated out of love for her child, ?Hannah came in for a lot of criticism, but I think what she did was out of love for her child.  And the adoption caused Jane Russell all sorts of grief. Howard Hughes thought all the bad press would finish her and he ordered her to return the boy, but she stood her ground and refused to give up the child.?

Baby Thomas was issued with a passport by Ireland?s London Embassy where staff were oblivious to the child?s true need for documentation. After the scandal broke, a Government memo circulated claiming that the entire incident was a ?publicity stunt? by Russell and that one of the guarantors for the passport?s application had explicitly stated the baby was not being adopted.  And it was not just Irish civil servants who had had the wool pulled over their eyes. British legislation had come into force the year before banning such adoptions and Home Secretary (Justice Minister) Sir Maxwell Fyfe told Parliament nine days after the ?adoption? that authorities believed the child was traveling to America for a three-month ?holiday?.  Today, both Bob Waterfield and Jane Russell have passed away, and their son Thomas remains in the United States, reportedly living in Arizona.  He was one of thousands of Irish children adopted by American couples during the 1950s. Most of them, unlike Thomas, were born outside wedlock and state papers reveal that as many as ten a month were placed in US homes.  Back then, the Irish Government played little role in the practice, restricting themselves to issuing each child with a passport, trusting the Catholic Church?s vetting of prospective parents.  As most were born out of wedlock and living in homes, one Minister for Justice Gerald Boland wrote that he ?favored the sending of children to America for adoption in suitable homes where the alternative would be life in an institution in this country?.

It was an attitude not uttered in public but one that quietly prevailed in the Irish Government, so much so that they did everything to facilitate such adoptions. One memo warned that it would be, ?quite embarrassing if, in some case, a child had to be left in this country owing to the impossibility of issuing a passport in time?.

Disturbingly, Irish diplomats even wrote boastful memos back to Dublin that ?Moreover, there is no ?color? problem here [in Ireland] so that intending foster parents in the US know that Irish children are ?guaranteed? in that respect.?

Subsequently, it?s been revealed that the vetting process in America was not as above-board as the Irish Government assumed. Monsignor O?Grady of the Catholic Charities admitted in 1956 that some of the charity?s adoptions had been ?irregular? and organized by a ?commercial operator? in Texas and Wisconsin?.  The idea of an Irish child being bought and sold clearly rattled Ireland?s Department of External Affairs and in the wake of the Russell case a letter between London and Dublin was fired off stating, ?I have taken an extreme case for my example but the fact is that, if any child who left this country for adoption in America figured in an unsavory press campaign, racket or other exposure, it is this Department that would face the music.?

Nevertheless, the practice continued right up until 1970. In 2013 a British film, "Philomena," was released starring Dame Judi Dench dramatizing the story of a mother who goes in search of her son in America some 60 years after his forced adoption in Ireland.

* Originally published in Jan 2017. Updated in February 2023.

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Clerical abuse survivor Paul Redmond explains why he had to give Pope Francis "crash course" on Magdalene Laundries

"Ireland is unique in the 20th century in having such institutions."

Chairperson of the Coalition of Mother and Baby Home Survivors Paul Redmond has clarified why he had to give Pope Francis a "crash course" on the history of the Magdalene Laundries and industrial schools during their meeting on Saturday.  Redmond was one of eight clerical abuse survivors that met with Pope Francis during what he described as a "very intense" weekend.  In conversation with Caitriona Perry on RT? News: Six One on Sunday evening, Redmond noted that the Pope didn't have adequate knowledge of institutional abuse in Ireland.  "Just to clarify that, because people seem quite puzzled by that, that the Pope was unfamiliar with with a Magdalene Laundry was or an industrial school; Ireland is unique in the 20th century in having such institutions," Redmond began.

"They really started in Victorian Britain. We obviously inherited them, but by 1900 the British had realised that large scale institutional care simply doesn't work, and they started closing down their institutions.  The Catholic Church had taken them over in Ireland and we kept them right into the 1980s and into the 1990s, so they're quite unique to Ireland. The Pope had no - there's no parallel in Argentina or South America with these sort of institutions.  One of the survivors was explaining what happened to her in an industrial school and I actually had to jump in and spend three or four minutes giving the Pope a crash course in what Irish institutions were and what happened."

Redmond noted that he gave the Pope "a number of facts and figures" and upon detailing specific incidences, Pope Francis "put his hands up to his head a couple of times" and was "clearly shocked and taken aback" at what he was hearing.  Asked how he felt when Pope Francis asked for forgiveness of abuse carried out by the church in Ireland, Redmond said that he felt some sense of relief.  "We went in asking for what we've been asking for from church and state for years, which is a full acknowledgement, apology and a redress package for survivors particularly because our community is generally elderly and dying.  We didn't expect to get that," Redmond continued. "The fact that he asked for forgiveness was a step in the right direction.  What we were hoping for was that he would address the issue of the fact that natural mothers and to some extent, adoptees were told back in the day that the search and look for reunion was immortal sin and they would burn in hell for it, and that it was a criminal offence and illegal."

Redmond acknowledged that the Pope took the requests and sentiment of the survivors on board and addressed it fully during his mass at the Phoenix Park.  "I am delighted about that," said Paul. "That is definitely a huge step forward for our community. A lot of us suffer in silence."

It was underlined that despite this progress, Pope Francis didn't offer a definitive apology.  "No, and we knew he never would any more than the government will, or any of the individual orders or nuns," said Redmond.

"An apology is a legal admission of liability and they simply will not do that. The church and state are going to have to be dragged to that kicking and screaming."

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https://www.room151.co.uk/funding/rise-childrens-social-care-placements/

1,000% rise in five years in number of children?s social care placements costing ?10,000 per week
by Jason Holland
in 151 News ? Funding ? Social care
29 Nov, 2023

A survey of councils conducted by the Local Government Association has revealed a startling rise in the cost of children?s social care placements.  The number of such placements costing ?10,000 or more per week has risen by over 1,000% in five years.  There were 120 of these placements in 2018/19, rising to 1,510 in 2022/23, while the proportion of councils with at least one children?s social care placement has increased from 23% to 91% over the same period.  The survey found that the highest cost placement was ?63,000 a week. For most councils the highest cost fell between ?9,600 and ?32,500 a week.  A lack of choice in placements is driving the high prices, with nearly every council 98 per cent citing this as a cause.  Some 93% of councils also highlighted children needing help with increasingly complex needs, including mental health needs or exhibiting challenging behaviours, as a factor.  The Local Government Association said the findings demonstrated a ?broken? market for children?s social care placements, and called for ?urgent investment in provision that can best meet children?s needs?, on behalf of councils.

The organisation said there were three key areas for government action, including rolling out planned Department for Education programmes on the recruitment and retention of foster carers to all councils.  The LGA also called for the expansion of children?s homes through capital investment, recruitment and professional development of children?s homes workers and working with the voluntary and community sector.  The third action area is working with DHSC and NHS England on both inpatient mental health facilities and joint delivery of placements for children with complex mental health needs, the LGA said.  The LGA added that it is ?vital? that councils ?are able to invest in earlier support for children and families to reduce the number of children who need to be in the care of their council, and that councils are provided with longer term funding settlements to enable them to plan ahead?.

The LGA is calling for urgent funding for children?s social care in the upcoming provisional Local Government Finance Settlement. It warned the lack of investment in the Autumn Statement ?risked councils? ability to provide the critical care and support that children rely on every day?.

Louise Gittins, chair of the LGA?s Children and Young People Board, said: ?With more children needing help with increasingly complex and challenging needs, what is most important is ensuring they get the best care and support. It is concerning that in many cases, a lack of choice means provision is not fully meeting children?s needs.  The astronomical costs of care placements mean there is less money available for councils to spend on earlier support for children and families.  These findings are indicative of a broken market for children?s social care placements, but it doesn?t have to remain this way. With cross-government support, it is possible to make sure we have the right homes for all of the children in our care.?

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https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/new-brunswick/nb-no-apology-unwed-mothers-1.5247545?__vfz=medium%3Dsharebar&fbclid=IwAR0DhFIRSnS98gwz2NXVRHX6PpbCPDnLvDCRk1k4uQU7zT9tjSn-ovGsr3I

'Bad girls': Remembering when unwed mothers were told to forget their babies
Parliament doesn't answer call to apologize to women forced to give up their children
Rachel Cave ? CBC News ? Posted: Aug 16, 2019 4:00 AM EDT | Last Updated: August 16, 2019

Marie Crouse, who gave up her baby for adoption when she was 15, says she's not waiting to hear "sorry" from Ottawa, even though a Senate committee says thousands of Canadian women like her are owed an apology for the way they were treated in the postwar years for getting pregnant outside marriage.  The committee's report, titled "The Shame is Ours" tabled July 19, 2018, gave Parliament one year to acknowledge the impact of "unethical adoption practices" inflicted on women in church-run maternity homes that received federal funding across the country.   The committee heard emotional testimony from mothers who said they felt banished from their communities, pressured into giving up their parental rights and warned not to go looking for their babies, who would never forgive them their sins.  The Senate called on the federal government to acknowledge and apologize to the estimated 350,000 women who were forced to give up their babies for adoption between 1945 and 1971, simply because they were not married.

School principal noticed

Crouse watched the hearings in March from her home in Wakefield, north of Woodstock, and some of what she heard sounded like her story.  The oldest of eight children, Crouse said she had a rebellious side and was dating boys by age 14.  Neither her father, who hauled logs, nor her homemaker mother taught her the facts of life, she said, and the public schools did not fill in the gaps.  "The only sex education you got was in the back seat of a car or from your friends who didn't know much more than you did," said Crouse.

When she was in Grade 10, the principal of Hartland High School called her into his office and told her she couldn't attend classes anymore because her pregnancy was showing.  Crouse refused to believe she was pregnant.  In December of that year, 1962, her father hired someone to drive Crouse to Saint John in the company of her mother, who dropped her off at the Evangeline Home run by the Salvation Army.  "They had to get me out of town before anybody knew that I was pregnant," Crouse said. "That would have been their shame."

Growing up in Coldstream, Crouse had never travelled farther than Woodstock.  According to a historical sketch from the Provincial Archives, the hospital was then working solely for unmarried mothers, principally from New Brunswick and Prince Edward Island, although girls were also accepted from Nova Scotia, Quebec, Ontario, Newfoundland, and the western provinces, as well as Maine and Florida.   

'We should have never gotten pregnant'

Crouse remembers living on the third floor of the Princess Street building for about three months, along with at least two dozen other girls who came and went at any given time. Crouse says they all received some religious instruction.

And she says, one by one, they would be called into the Salvation Army captain's office, where Crouse remembers being asked, "how we got into this and what our plans were."

"I hate to say brainwashed," said Crouse recalling these talks. "But it was a lot to the fact that we were bad girls. We should not have had sex without being married. We should have never gotten pregnant.  And we were told we should never look for these babies because these babies would never want to know us because we were bad."

After giving birth to a daughter on March 3, 1963, and naming her Michelle, Crouse remained in the home for 14 days and was expected to change the baby and feed her.  On reflection, she thinks it was a form of punishment allowing young mothers to bond with infants before "ripping them away."  As her final act of rebellion, and in defiance of the Evangeline Home's rules against taking pictures, Crouse purchased a small camera in a nearby shop. She persuaded a nurse to take a picture of her, holding her daughter on her last day in Saint John.  She wouldn't see Michelle again for 28 years.

Someday, I'll find her

Crouse knew she wasn't going to be taking the baby home with her, but she can't remember being informed about adoption or signing a form giving up her parental rights.  Instead of obeying the instructions to "forget this ever happened," Crouse said, she went looking for her daughter in the 1980s.

However, New Brunswick's sealed records policy prevented her from seeing the names of her daughter's adoptive parents.  By then, Ron and Irma Getchell had moved to the United States and had renamed the baby, Carolynne.  Crouse turned to Parent Finders, a volunteer group that was actively working to reunite adopted children and their birth parents. In the years before Facebook, the group relied heavily on church records, obituaries and word of mouth to solve their cases.  In the end, it was Crouse's daughter who found her, by phoning the province's post-adoption services department. While the province had a policy of "protecting" the identities of individuals involved in adoptions, once a child turned 19, he or she could register their consent to be found.  That's how Carolynne was finally put in touch with Crouse, and they met for the first time in 1991, when Carolynne was 28 years old.  Their relationship is strong to this day, Crouse said, and Carolynne was visiting from New Hampshire just last week.

Detective work as therapy

By 1997, Crouse had taken on the unpaid position of president of Parent Finders and today, at age 72, she sees no retirement on the horizon.  According to her records, she and her team solved more than 500 cases over the past 22 years and have another 30 pending.  On April 1, 2018, New Brunswick moved to modernize its records policy, allowing adult adoptees to access the names of their birth parents.  But Crouse is convinced her searchers will stay busy.   "A name is sometimes just the start," she says.

"People marry, they change their names, they move away and sometimes they move out of the country," said Crouse, who has tracked down individuals living as far away as Puerto Rico and Bolivia.

She said people still need help to fill out forms and make sensitive phone calls.  "And that's more help than anything from the Senate," she said.

No apology from the Salvation Army

The Salvation Army, which ran the Evangeline Home in Saint John from 1898 to 1978, declined an interview.  An emailed statement sent from Jamie Locke, divisional secretary for public relations, said the Salvation Army did present a brief to the Senate committee based on results from an internal review it conducted in 2013, which found the organization had no legal or practical role in the adoption process itself.  "Instead the Salvation Army provided safe housing, meals and structured activities to meet the immediate needs of the women housed, followed by health care during and immediately after the birth of their child."

It's an answer that doesn't satisfy Valerie Andrews, who pressed for the Senate review and was herself a 17-year-old unwed mother at the Salvation Army's Toronto Grace Hospital, where she gave birth to a boy in 1970 and gave him up for adoption.  In her 2017 thesis, submitted to York University, Andrews says her research suggests some 300,000 unmarried Canadian women were systematically separated from their babies at birth between 1940 and 1970.  She said many were psychologically coerced. In a maternity home, talk about keeping your baby was not looked upon well, she said.  "It was the mature, respectable, responsible girl who chose adoption," Andrews said. "It was the 'other kind of girl' who wanted to keep her baby. The selfish girl, the foolish girl, the other kind of girl."

Andrews heard from mothers who never saw their children or were never told their gender.  "I mean, these babies were grabbed off delivery tables and whisked away, mothers seeing little mops of black hair being whisked away."

Some mothers in Canada's maternity homes were told their babies had died.   "That's why we fought for this Senate study," she said. "To bring out the illegal, unethical and human rights abuses that were perpetrated against unmarried mothers in the postwar period."

The standing Senate committee on social affairs, science and technology, which conducted the review and issued the report, is now chaired by Sen. Chantal Petitclerc.  CBC News tried to speak to her about the passing of the committee's deadline for an apology from Parliament and the fact none has been given. She declined to be interviewed.

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Articles / 'We must stop blaming mothers in child protection social work?
« on: November 29, 2023, 03:09:09 PM »
https://www.communitycare.co.uk/2023/11/24/we-must-stop-blaming-mothers-in-child-protection-social-work/

'We must stop blaming mothers in child protection social work?
A social work trainer says practitioners too often make mothers solely responsible for their children's safety, even when they are domestic abuse victims, undermining the effectiveness of interventions with families
November 24, 2023 in Children
by Vicki Shevlin

When I started in social work, I thought I would be prepared to manage the misogyny embedded in practice. But when it came to working with mothers who were victims of domestic abuse, I found myself developing habits that amounted to poor practice.  Without realising it, influenced by others on my team, I began focusing all my initial contact on mothers. I was arranging home visits based on when they were at home with their children, relying on them to share information and give consent, and, worst, holding them accountable for implementing the ?safety? in safety plans.  My practice began to emulate what is known as ?mother blaming?; a phrase commonly used in literature to describe the discourse of ?disproportionate responsibilisation of women for the protection of children and for their partners? abuse? (Wild, 2022).

What is ?mother blaming??

Mother blaming occurs when practitioners perpetuate the ideology that mothers are primarily responsible for the safety, wellbeing and care of children (Strega et al, 2008), even when they themselves are victims.  This may look like inviting mothers to meetings, but not following up when fathers do not attend. Sometimes, it may be the writing of safety plans that heavily rely on mothers to take certain actions to ?provide safety?, with fathers omitted completely such as a reliance on mothers to uphold recommended contact arrangements.  As a new social worker then, certain habits became embedded. I was writing sentences talking about ?mothers? capacity to protect? and not taking steps to look into what fathers were doing.  I look back on supervisions where I talked about ?hidden? or ?unseen? men but I now know that, without action, my use of the phrases simply reinforced the problem.  It wasn?t enough for me to recognise that a male perpetrator was missing from my intervention I needed to do something about it.  On one occasion, a mother told me she had felt I was blaming her, rather than supporting her. She didn?t trust that I would genuinely help her.

The impact of mother blaming

If social workers hold a narrow viewpoint that mothers are solely to blame for the behaviour and actions of perpetrators, it reduces the likelihood of them building strong and meaningful relationships with parents. This affects the effectiveness of interventions with children and families.  When blame is unfairly placed on mothers, it also disproportionately affects those who are part of the global majority, living in poverty or systematically marginalised.  There is also a risk of social workers causing harm through secondary victimisation, where victims suffer further harm because of the behaviour and attitudes of professionals.  As social workers, we have to question the ideologies that we are modelling to children and young people in the way we treat their family members.

?You can centre children and hold empathy for mothers?

The Children Act 1989 says the welfare and safety of children is paramount.  Many practitioners feel that they cannot prioritise the safety of children and at the same time acknowledge mothers as victims of domestic abuse. This is often attributed to legislation and policy focusing solely on children?s safety and the lack of services available to victims.  As a result, mothers are repeatedly held accountable for the actions of perpetrators.  It is important that, as social workers, we understand the limitations of binary thinking.  You can centre children and hold empathy for mothers. You can assess and support; care for families in a problematic system and stay conscious of the risks of mother blaming.  You don?t have to choose one or the other.

What needs to change

This starts with social work leaders who are committed to cultural change. Managers should be committed to changing habits, challenging language and, ultimately, encouraging their teams to think critically about systemic bias, particularly around domestic abuse.  Changing entrenched practice approaches is not simple. Many of us don?t want to admit that it is often easier to work with a parent who answers the phone, turns up to meetings or is more likely to be at home when we visit.  When effort is not put into trying to contact perpetrators, it is a choice, albeit one exacerbated by high caseloads, emotional stress and organisational pressure. Practitioners have to be supported in this.

Abandoning problematic language

Social workers are often required to be lead professionals in cases of domestic abuse. When you chair meetings, you should talk about the tendency of professionals to attribute blame to mothers whilst ignoring fathers. This can set the tone for further conversations, planning and interventions that take a systemic approach.  Local authorities can also make a commitment to stop using unhelpful terminology such as ?mother?s failure to protect? or ?father not engaging?. It?s problematic and perpetuates harmful tropes.  Social workers need to be supported to include alternative approaches in their assessments. This includes training specific to perpetrator behavior as well as mother and child relationships.  When you understand a child?s world and lived experience, you can gain insight into complex relationships that can be harmed when we make reductive assumptions.

References

Strega, S, Fleet, C, Brown, L, Dominelli, L, Callahan, M, Walmsley, C (2008) ?Connecting father absence and mother blame in child welfare policies and practice? Children and Youth Services Review 30(7)

Wild, J (2022) ?Gendered Discourses of Responsibility and Domestic Abuse Victim-Blame in the English Children?s Social Care System? Journal of Family Violence 38(3)

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https://www.thereporteronline.com/2023/11/06/inspired-by-online-dating-ai-tool-for-adoption-matchmaking-falls-short-for-vulnerable-foster-kids/

Inspired by online dating, AI tool for adoption matchmaking falls short for vulnerable foster kids

By SALLY HO and GARANCE BURKE (Associated Press)

Some are orphans, others seized from their parents. Many are older and have overwhelming needs or disabilities. Most bear the scars of trauma from being hauled between foster homes, torn from siblings or sexually and physically abused.  Child protective services agencies have wrestled for decades with how to find lasting homes for such vulnerable children and teens a challenge so enormous that social workers can never guarantee a perfect fit.  Into this morass stepped Thea Ramirez with what she touted as a technological solution an artificial intelligence-powered tool that ultimately can predict which adoptive families will stay together. Ramirez claimed this algorithm, designed by former researchers at an online dating service, could boost successful adoptions across the U.S. and promote efficiency at cash-strapped child welfare agencies.  ?We?re using science not merely preferences ? to establish a score capable of predicting long-term success,? Ramirez said in an April 2021 YouTube video about her ambitions to flip ?the script on the way America matches children and families? using the Family-Match algorithm.

An Associated Press investigation, however, found that the AI tool among the few adoption algorithms on the market has produced limited results in the states where it has been used, according to Family-Match?s self-reported data that AP obtained through public records requests from state and local agencies.  Ramirez also has overstated the capabilities of the proprietary algorithm to government officials as she has sought to expand its reach, even as social workers told AP that the tool wasn?t useful and often led them to unwilling families.  Virginia and Georgia dropped the algorithm after trial runs, noting its inability to produce adoptions, though both states have resumed business with Ramirez?s nonprofit called Adoption-Share, according to AP?s review of hundreds of pages of documents.  Tennessee scrapped the program before rolling it out, saying it didn?t work with their internal system even after state officials spent more than two years trying to set it up, and social workers reported mixed experiences with Family-Match in Florida, where its use has been expanding.  State officials told AP that the organization that Ramirez runs as CEO owns some of the sensitive data Family-Match collects. They also noted that the nonprofit provided little transparency about how the algorithm works.  Those experiences, the AP found, provide lessons for social service agencies seeking to deploy predictive analytics without a full grasp of the technologies? limitations, especially when trying to address such enduring human challenges as finding homes for children described by judges as the ?least adoptable.?  ?There?s never going to be a foolproof way for us to be able to predict human behavior,? said Bonni Goodwin, a University of Oklahoma child welfare data expert. ?There?s nothing more unpredictable than adolescence.?

Ramirez, of Brunswick, Georgia, where her nonprofit is also based, refused to provide details about the algorithm?s inner workings and declined interview requests. By email, she said the tool was a starting point for social workers and did not determine whether a child would be adopted. She also disputed child welfare leaders? accounts of Family-Match?s performance.  ?User satisfaction surveys and check-ins with our agency end users indicate that Family-Match is a valuable tool and helpful to users actively using it to support their recruitment + matching efforts,? Ramirez wrote.

Ramirez, a former social worker and wife of a Georgia pastor, has long sought to promote adoption as a way to reduce abortions, according to her public statements, newsletters and a blog post.  More than a decade ago, she launched a website to connect pregnant women with potential adoptive parents. She marketed it as ?the ONLY online community exclusively for networking crisis pregnancy centers? and pledged to donate 10% of membership fees to such anti-abortion counseling centers, whose aim is to persuade women to bring their pregnancies to term.  Ramirez said in an email that Family-Match is not associated with such centers.  She next turned her focus to helping children living in foster care who don?t have family members to raise them. Most of the 50,000 children adopted nationwide in 2021 landed with relatives, federal statistics show, while about 5,000 ended up with people they didn?t previously know. Such recruitment-based adoptions are the most difficult to carry out, social workers say.  Ramirez has said she called Gian Gonzaga, a research scientist who had managed the algorithms at eharmony, a dating site with Christian roots that promises users ?real love? for those seeking marriage. She asked Gonzaga if he would team up with her to create an adoption matchmaking tool.  Gonzaga, who worked with his wife Heather Setrakian at eharmony and then on the Family-Match algorithm, referred questions to Ramirez. Setrakian said she was very proud of her years of work developing the Family-Match model.  An eharmony spokesperson, Kristen Berry, said the dating site was ?not affiliated with Family-Match.? Berry described Gonzaga and Setrakian as ?simply former employees.?

Later, Ramirez began crisscrossing the country promoting Family-Match to state officials. Her work and her religious convictions drew support primarily from conservatives, including first lady Melania Trump, who spotlighted Ramirez?s efforts at a foster care event in the White House Situation Room. Ramirez has co-written reports and given a high-profile presentation at the American Enterprise Institute, benefitted from attention-getting fundraisers and used connections to win over state officials to pilot her tool.  Social workers say Family-Match works like this: Adults seeking to adopt submit survey responses via the algorithm?s online platform, and foster parents or social workers input each child?s information.  After the algorithm generates a score measuring the ?relational fit,? Family-Match displays a list of the top prospective parents for each child. Social workers then vet the candidates.  In a best-case scenario, a child is matched and placed in a home for a trial stay; parents then submit the legal paperwork to formalize the adoption.  Family-Match first started matching families in Florida and Virginia in 2018. Virginia?s then-governor Terry McAuliffe, a Democrat, ordered a pilot at the urging of a campaign donor he appointed as the state?s ?adoption champion.? In Florida, which has a privatized child welfare system, regional care organizations soon signed up for the algorithm for free thanks to a grant from a foundation founded by the then-CEO of the company that makes Patr?n tequila and his wife.  Once philanthropic dollars dried up in Florida, the state government picked up the tab, awarding Adoption-Share a $350,000 contract last month for its services.  Pilot efforts in Tennessee and Georgia followed.  Adoption-Share has generated $4.2 million in revenue since 2016; it reported about $1.2 million in 2022, according to its tax returns.  In Virginia?s two-year test of Family-Match, the algorithm produced only one known adoption, officials said.  ?The local staff reported that they did not find the tool particularly useful,? the Virginia Department of Social Services said in a statement, noting that Family-Match ?had not proven effective? in the state.

Virginia social workers were also perplexed that the algorithm seemed to match all the children with the same group of parents, said Traci Jones, an assistant director at the state?s social services agency.  ?We did not have access to the algorithm even after it was requested,? Jones said.

By 2022, Virginia had awarded Adoption-Share an even larger contract for a different foster care initiative that the nonprofit says ?leverages? the Family-Match application.  Georgia officials said they ended their initial pilot in October 2022 because the tool didn?t work as intended, ultimately only leading to two adoptions during their year-long experiment.  Social workers said the tool?s matching recommendations often led them to unwilling parents, leading them to question whether the algorithm was properly assessing the adults? capacity to adopt those kids.  Ramirez met with the governor?s office and also lobbied a statehouse committee for a direct appropriation, saying the tool was ?an incredible feat.? By July, the Georgia Department of Human Services signed a new agreement with Adoption-Share to use Family-Match again this time for free, said Kylie Winton, an agency spokesperson.  Florida?s privatized child welfare system operates with more than a dozen regional agencies providing foster care and adoption services. When AP requested public records about their Family-Match cases, many of those agencies gave the tool mixed reviews and couldn?t explain Family-Match?s self-reported data, making it difficult to assess the algorithm?s purported success rate.  Statewide in Florida, Family-Match claimed credit for 603 placements that resulted in 431 adoptions over a five-year period, according to Adoption-Share?s third-quarter report for the 2023 fiscal year that AP obtained from a Pensacola-based child welfare organization.  Scott Stevens, an attorney representing the FamiliesFirst Network, told AP in June that only three trial placements recommended by Family-Match failed since the agency started using the algorithm in 2019. But Adoption-Share?s records that Stevens provided to the AP indicate that his agency made 76 other Family-Match placements that didn?t show the children had been formally adopted. Asked by AP for clarification, Stevens couldn?t say what happened in those 76 cases and referred further questions to Family-Match.  Ramirez declined to discuss the discrepancy but acknowledged in an email that not all matches work out.  ?Transitions can take time in the journey to adoption,? Ramirez said in an email, adding that the ?decision to finalize the adoption is ultimately the responsibility? of agencies with input from the children and judges. On Sunday, Adoption-Share posted on its Facebook page that the organization had ?reached 500 adoptions in Florida!?

Jenn Petion, the president and CEO of the organization that handles adoptions in Jacksonville, said she likes how the algorithm lets her team tap into a statewide pool of potential parents. Petion has also endorsed Family-Match for helping her find her adoptive daughter, whom she described as a ?100% match? in an Adoption-Share annual report.  Family-Match assists social workers in making ?better decisions, better matches,? Petion said, but her agency, Family Support Services declined to provide statistics about Family-Match.  The Fort Myers-based Children?s Network of Southwest Florida said in the past five years the Family-Match tool has led to 22 matches and eight adoptions, as compared to the hundreds of matches and hundreds of adoptions that its social workers did without the tool.  Bree Bofill, adoption program manager for Miami-based Citrus Family Care Network, said social workers found the tool didn?t work very well, often suggesting potential families that weren?t the right fit.  ?It?s frustrating that it?s saying that the kids are matched but in reality, when you get down to it, the families aren?t interested in them,? Bofill said of the algorithm.

Bofill also said it was difficult to assess the tool?s utility because social workers who found potential parents were sometimes asked by Family-Match officials to tell the adults to register with the tool even if it played no role in the adoption, allowing the algorithm to claim credit for the match.  Winton, the Georgia agency spokesperson, told AP about a similar issue Family-Match could claim credit for pairings if the child and parent already were in its system, even if the program didn?t generate the match. Family-Match, in an April 2023 ?confidential? user guide posted on the internet, instructed social workers not to delete cases that were matched outside the tool. Instead, they were told to document the match in the system so that Adoption-Share could refine its algorithm and follow up with the families.  Ramirez didn?t address Bofill?s claim but said in an email that Family-Match?s reports reflect what social workers input into the system.  Officials in Virginia, Georgia and Florida said they weren?t sure how the tool scored families based on the highly sensitive variables powering the algorithm.  In Georgia, Family-Match continues to gather data about whether foster youth have been sexually abused, the gender of their abuser, and whether they have a criminal record or ?identify as LGBTQIA.? That kind of information is typically restricted to tightly secured child protective services case files.  In Tennessee, a version of the algorithm?s questionnaire for prospective parents asked for their specific household income and for them to rate how ?conventional? or ?uncreative? they were. They were also asked if they agreed or disagreed with a statement about whether they seek God?s help, according to records AP obtained.  When Tennessee Department of Children?s Services reviewed the proposed Family-Match assessment, they questioned some of the information Family-Match wanted to collect. Tennessee officials asked why Family-Match needed certain sensitive data points and how that data influenced the match score, according to an internal document in which state workers noted questions and feedback about the algorithm. Ramirez said the agency didn?t challenge the survey?s validity, and said the discussions were part of the streamlining process.  Virginia officials said once families? data was entered into the tool, ?Adoption Share owned the data.?

In Florida, two agencies acknowledged that they used Family-Match informally without a contract, but would not say how children?s data was secured.  Ramirez wouldn?t say if Family-Match has deleted pilot data from its servers, but said her organization maintains a compliance audit and abides by contract terms.  Social welfare advocates and data security experts have been raising alarms about government agencies? increasing reliance on predictive analytics to assist them on the job. Those researchers and advocates say such tools can exacerbate racial disparities and discriminate against families based on characteristics they cannot change.  Adoption-Share is part of a small cadre of organizations that say their algorithms can help social workers place children with foster or adoptive families.  ?We?re using, essentially, kids as guinea pigs for these tools. They are the crash test dummies,? said Suresh Venkatasubramanian, a former assistant director of the Biden White House?s Office of Science and Technology Policy now at Brown University. ?That?s a big problem right there.?

Adoption-Share continues to try to expand, seeking business in places like New York City, Delaware and Missouri, where child welfare agency officials were reviewing its pitch. Ramirez said she also saw an opportunity last year to present Family-Match to the U.S. Health and Human Services Department ?to demonstrate our tool and how it can be a helpful resource.?

This year, Adoption-Share landed a deal with the Florida Department of Health for Family-Match to build an algorithm intended ?to increase the pool of families willing to foster and/or adopt medically complex children,? according to state contracts.

Health department officials didn?t respond to repeated requests for comment.  Connie Going, a longtime Florida social worker whose own viral adoption story Ramirez has described as her inspiration for Family-Match, said she didn?t believe the tool would help such vulnerable children. Going said the algorithm gives false hope to waiting parents by failing to deliver successful matches, and ultimately makes her job harder.  ?We?ve put our trust in something that is not 100% useful,? Going said. ?It?s wasted time for social workers and wasted emotional experiences for children.?

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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-12679607/russian-woman-married-son.html

I've MARRIED my 22-year-old adopted son after raising him from the age of 14 officials have now taken my other five children away from me

    Aisylu Mingalim, 53, from Tatarstan, raised her now husband from the age of 14
    READ MORE: My mum paid ?15,000 for my dream wedding... then had a BABY with my husband nine months later

By Shannon Mcguigan

Published: 14:35, 27 October 2023 | Updated: 14:35, 27 October 2023

A mother has revealed how she has married her adopted son after raising him from the age of 14.  Aisylu Chizhevskaya Mingalim, 53, from Tatarstan, Russia, has left child welfare experts horrified by tying the knot with 22-year-old  Daniel Chizhevsky.  She first met Daniel when he was just 13 and working as a singing teacher at his orphanage.  Aisylu then adopted him and raised him from the age of 14.  But just eight years later the pair have now tied the knot, leaving authorities to take custody of her other adopted children.  'Our relationship is perfect. We can't live without each other. We are on the same wavelength,' she told local media.

The mother and her adopted son wed in a ceremony at a restaurant in Kazan last week.  Child welfare officials have now seized Aisylu's other five adopted children one boy and four girls.  The adoptive mother has denounced the decision, with the children reportedly having been placed into care homes or given back to their biological relatives.   She wants the children back in her care, so all of them including their adopted brother turned step-father can flee to Moscow.  The former music teacher believes the family will be able to live more 'freely' in the Russian capital.  Reportedly Aisylu has a biological son from a previous marriage, however no additional information about him has been detailed.  The former singing teacher's adoption spree started shortly after coming into contact with orphans whilst on a film project with a Tatarstan TV station.  Last year, a woman who traded in her husband for her step-son revealed she was expecting their second child.  Marina Balmasheva, 38, from Russia, already had a 20-months-old daughter with Vladimir 'Vova' Shavyrin, now 24.  She has known him since he was seven, calls him 'the most charming blue-eyes in the world', and was previously married to his father Alexey Shavyrin, 48, who now cares for their five adopted children.  Marina, who is a popular weight loss influencer, announced her baby news online, sharing a video of the moment Vladimir learned she was going to be a father for the second time.  Marina calls her second husband 'the most charming blue-eyes in the world' but scolds him on social media for being 'clumsy' pushing their daughter's pram, and failing to hold down a well paid job in Krasnodar region, close to Ukraine, where war is raging.  She makes clear that she supports him from her social media earnings rather than allow him to do a mundane office job.  After revealing her relationship with her former stepson, she said: 'So many people tell me to use makeup make lashes, and curl my pubic hair because of my young husband. 'But there is one thing he fell in love with me with all my scars from plastic surgeries, cellulite, excessive skin and personality.'

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Articles / For Decades, Churches Forced Unwed Mothers Into Adoptions
« on: October 19, 2023, 03:09:17 PM »
https://sojo.net/articles/decades-churches-forced-unwed-mothers-adoptions

For Decades, Churches Forced Unwed Mothers Into Adoptions
By Rebecca Randall
Oct 17, 2023

When Francine Gurtler gave birth at age 15, she felt like she lost her voice. Gurtler lived at an Episcopal home for unwed mothers and said the workers of the home coerced her into placing her baby for adoption.  ?They literally took him from my arms,? she said. The adoption record notes she was ?tearful,? but Gurtler said, ?I was sobbing, hysterically, uncontrollably, on the ground begging the social worker to let me keep my baby.?

Now, she is lobbying the Episcopal Church to make to make an apology for forcing her and other women and girls to relinquish their children for adoption while receiving services in the church?s maternity homes.  Raised an Episcopalian, Gurtler entered St. Faith?s Home for Unwed Mothers, operated within the New York diocese of the Episcopal Church, in 1971. The adoption records included: ?The birth mother told this social worker that she knew she had to give up her son as there was no other way, but she loved him and wished she could have kept him.? Gurtler told Sojourners: ?There was no other way because I was not given a choice.?

In 2017, she was reunited with her son through a DNA test. The reunion was drawn out over a few years? worth of phone calls and trips. It was emotionally draining, particularly as members of her reunited family still thought of Gurtler as ?giving up? her son. After a cross-country trip to visit him, ?I had a full-blown panic attack and went home,? she said. ?That put me on the journey to finding the truth.?

For a long time, she thought she was the only one who felt her child was stolen from her and given to another family. During late night internet surfing, she discovered another mother forced to surrender her baby: Karen Wilson-Buterbaugh, who wrote The Baby Scoop Era documenting forced adoptions between 1945 and 1972.In 2021, Gurtler found the Catholic Mothers for Truth & Transparency a group formed to speak against Catholic institutions that forced adoptions. The mothers successfully advocated for a 2021 Connecticut law to allow adoptees to access their original birth certificates.  ?It is widely recognized we have endured a trauma by losing our children to adoption, but the overwhelming majority of us are actively trying to heal in the face of this trauma,? the group wrote in an op-ed in The Connecticut Mirror. ?We do so by regaining our voices and our power that was lost at relinquishment.?

Energized by that win, the mothers turned next to asking for an apology from the Catholic Church. While other institutions, including churches, have apologized for forced adoptions in other countries, no church institutions in the U.S. are known to have apologized. The Episcopal Church declined to comment until after its executive council meets in late October 2023.  Gurtler, who is still an involved member in the Episcopal Church, wondered if she could successfully get the denomination to apologize for their role in forced adoptions. She sent emails to every bishop and any clergy member she thought might help sponsor a resolution. Eventually, she met Mark Diebel, a retired priest and adoptee. Together, they wrote a paper for a resolution at the 2022 Episcopal general convention, including the research of Wilson-Buterbaugh.  The church passed the resolution acknowledging its role in running maternity homes, where forced adoption took place. According to Gurtler?s research, the Episcopal Church ran at least seven maternity homes across the country, as well as having a role in the network of other homes. While it?s unknown if all maternity homes coerced mothers into giving up their children, historian Rickie Solinger described in her book Wake Up Little Susie how abusive adoption practices became common all over the country from the end of World War II to 1973 when Roe v. Wade passed.

The Baby Scoop Era

Wilson-Buterbaugh estimates that 1.5 million mothers were forced to relinquish their infants to adoption during this time. She refers to it as the ?Baby Scoop Era.? Unmarried mothers in the U.S. and other anglophone countries faced coercion by social workers and societal attitudes toward their ?sin.? Young, single, mostly white women, who became pregnant, were commonly sent to live at maternity homes, often against their will. Most maternity homes were operated by religious institutions.  Wilson-Buterbaugh said she ?had no control in 1966 when [her] baby was taken? by a Catholic social worker at the Florence Crittenton Home in Washington, D.C.

According to several reports found by Wilson-Buterbaugh, there were between 150 and 190 maternity homes in the U.S. in the 1960s. Three-quarters of the homes were affiliated with either the Florence Crittenton League (a charity that helped ?reform? unwed mothers, also known as National Florence Crittenton Mission), the Salvation Army, or various Catholic charities. The others were run by other religious groups or independent agencies, including by Episcopal organizations.  ?When you hear, ?Well, oh well it was the times, that?s why they did it.? Bull---- on that,? said Gurtler.

According to Wilson-Buterbaugh?s book, mothers were not generally pressured to relinquish their children in the early decades of the 20th century. She describes the ?Baby Scoop Era? as a regression on a timeline of women?s rights.  National Florence Crittenton Mission was established in 1883 by Charles Crittenton and Dr. Kate Waller Barrett, who were both Episcopalians. The homes would provide mothers shelter, medical care, discipleship, and job training. Mothering was considered a path to reform. Barrett wrote in 1903, ?During all the years that our home has been opened we have never consented in a single case to the child being given away.?

Over the years, the Crittenton homes expanded across the country and world to include over 70 independently operated homes.  A 1923 St. Faith?s report released from the diocese of New York doesn?t mention any adoptions among the 16 babies born that year. Instead, it notes the number of girls confirmed and babies baptized.  But in the decade leading up to WWII, historian Regina Kunzel found that social workers shifted to thinking of unwed mothers as ?deviant? or even psychotic and unfit to parent. They increasingly began practicing relinquishment and adoption, believing it to be in the best interest of the child. In some maternity homes, mothers were not granted entrance unless they agreed to relinquish their child. Once there, mothers were isolated from society, their families, often the father of their children, then, ultimately, their child.  In the decades after World War II, infertile, white married couples, often wealthy, began turning to social workers to form families, creating a demand for adoptions. According to sociologist Gretchen Sisson, researchers agree that about 20 percent of babies born to white unwed mothers were relinquished during this era. By 1966, most mothers who stayed at St. Faith?s surrendered their children for adoption according to a document from the home?s director at the time.  Jeannette Pai-Espinosa, the current president of Justice + Joy (formerly the National Florence Crittenton Mission), said that people felt that white women ?had more possibility or chances of reaching their hopes and dreams, and there were so many opportunities that they were going to miss if they had this baby,? she said. ?That wasn?t the case for marginalized women of color.?

These racist expectations colored views on motherhood and adoption. Most people of color born during their mothers? stay at Crittenton homes were still raised by their mother. As Sisson explained: In the Baby Scoop Era, white women faced shame, which was redeemable through adoption, while Black women faced blame, which resulted in discriminatory policies and attitudes toward Black families and children.  St. Faith?s closed in the mid-1970s, becoming a children?s home. Today, 25 Justice + Joy agencies still provide services to young women, but the priority is to enable mothers to remain with their children a pendulum swing that Pai-Espinosa regards as true to the original mission. Though times have changed, she said ?young motherhood is still influenced by the same complex mix of factors: race, gender, and class.?

An Episcopal apology?

If an apology is formalized, the Episcopal Church would be the first organization in the U.S. to facilitate an apology process for mothers and their children who were adopted. Two Canadian religious institutions formally apologized: the United Church of Canada in November 2020 and the Roman Catholic Archdiocese of Vancouver in May 2022.  The United Church of Canada ran five maternity homes across Canada. ?Women told us that they felt, pressured, coerced, or forced to give up their babies and the church recognizes it participated in the culture of shame that surrounded unmarried mothers at that time,? said Rev. Daniel Hayward, chairperson of the committee that recommended the apology.

To make reparations, the Vancouver archdiocese initiated trainings for Catholic counselors, social workers, and psychologists; ran articles in its regional newspaper; created a webpage of resources for adoptees and families of origin; and opened a hotline for those affected by adoption. Archbishop J. Michael Miller also gave a Mother?s Day blessing for mothers who were coerced to place their children for adoption.  Although the Episcopal Church no longer operates maternity homes, Gurtler and her counterparts worry that local dioceses and parishes continue to encourage the separation of mothers and infants via support of social and adoption agencies that pressure mothers to relinquish their infants.  Overall, she wants the church to stop promoting the narrative of adoption as ?the most wonderful thing,? and instead favor natural family preservation.

She wants the church to support mental health services for women who relinquished their kids at church-operated maternity homes like St. Faith?s. She also wants the church to assist families in finding each other again; birth records are not accessible even to adoptees in every state, and adoption records themselves can be elusive.  For the Episcopal Church?s resolution, Pai-Espinosa wrote a letter expressing regret over the actions of Crittenton in coercing mothers into placing their children for adoption. ?Not a month goes by that we don?t hear from someone searching for a family member and we are acutely aware of the pain and damage done by the past practices,? she wrote.

She encouraged the church not to react defensively but to compassionately consider the consequences of the actions taken during this era.  Gurtler, now a speech pathologist, says joining other women in calling on religious institutions to apologize for forced adoption is finally helping her use her voice again. For herself, she simply wants the truth to be acknowledged.  ?I just want someone to say to my son and my grandchildren: ?We stole him from her,?? she said.

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Ongoing legacy of historic adoption practices revealed in published evidence

18 March 2022

The Joint Committee on Human Rights has published the first tranche of written evidence it has received as part of its inquiry into the adoption of children of unmarried women between 1949 and 1976. The submissions include a large number of personal testimonies from mothers who were separated from their children, and people who were separated from their mothers as babies.

The testimonies reveal the societal and institutional pressures that led to unmarried mothers feeling they had no choice but for their baby to be adopted, and in many cases being given no option at all. They reveal a pervasive sense of shame and judgement towards unmarried mothers that led to pregnant women and girls being hidden or sent away and an air of secrecy for many years afterwards. This extended to the standard of treatment experienced during and after the birth, and has left a lasting impact. People who were adopted described the legacy of not knowing their family history, particularly for health issues.

A central aim of the inquiry is to listen to those affected by adoption practices during this time. As part of this the Joint Committee is holding a round-table event where members of the public can relate their experiences. Further information about how to take part can be found here.

The published written evidence can be found on the Committee’s website here. Excerpts of the submissions giving an overview of some the key issues raised are below. At the request of some respondents, and to protect the anonymity of individuals, some parts of the submissions have been redacted ahead of publication.

How unmarried mothers were treated

“Sending me away from my family to adult lodgings to have a baby on my own at 15 years has scarred me for life. Physically and psychologically. Being away from home in a strange town, I was not integrated into ante natal care and had absolutely no idea what to expect. I had a traumatic manual induction of labour at the hands of a local GP. I went into labour and hospital by ambulance alone. The birth process was a terrible shock as I had no preparation. I cared for my son for 8 days in the maternity hospital before returning to my lodgings alone. Back in my home town I was not integrated into post-natal care. I believe this lack of physical health care led to my being unable to have any further children. An indescribable grief.”

Mrs Eileen Griffiths (ACU0006)

“In 1962, as a seventeen year old art student, I found myself pregnant. As was commonplace at that time, my family was horrified and decided to send me away and hide my situation, to avoid the shame and loss of reputation that would otherwise follow.”

Anonymous (ACU0092)

“I was unaccompanied during the birth, except for the midwives, and the birth took place in a local hospital on 1975. The birth was long and grim, ending with an epidural, forceps and many stitches, probably because I had had virtually no ante-natal care or preparation and was absolutely terrified. My daughter was taken straight into the nursery and I was left on a trolley outside the delivery room until, sometime later, I was wheeled onto a ward. I cannot remember much of the next ten days (ten days was the usual post-birth hospital stay then) but I do know that I was desperate to see my daughter all the time. I remember going secretly into the nursery in the dead of night and attempting to breastfeed her – I had no idea at all of how to do this but some primal need and drive led me. After ten days, I left the hospital with my mother, leaving my daughter behind. And from that moment on, my family didn’t refer to either my daughter or my experience for forty years. I was expected to get on with life.”

Anonymous (ACU 108)

Making decisions around adoption

“I did not know I was allowed to give my son a name I was so elated when I was told I was allowed to. There was so much I didn’t know, about my rights. There was no-one standing up for me and my son. Everything was geared to pressurise me into relinquishing my son to a married, childless couple.”

Anonymous (ACU0044)

“As an unmarried mother I was allocated a social worker, who although, was very kind and understanding, persuaded me that there really was no alternative but to have my baby adopted. I had no support from the father of the baby, I could not, and would not rely on support from my parents, and at that time there was no government support in any way. I just could not have kept my baby, carried on working and supporting myself without help. So the most painful decision of my life had to be made, and everyone encouraged me to have my baby adopted.”

Florence Keaton (ACU0057)

“My parents didn’t really know what to do, so left it all in the hands of our family doctor. He immediately put us in touch with the Church Army moral welfare officer and the whole situation was completely governed by my GP and the Church welfare officer. Adoption was the only prospect ever considered by them and my parents – I didn’t even have a say in the matter. But I knew even before he was born that I loved my baby – it felt like it was him and me against the world. But my rights as a mother and his rights as my child were taken away from us.”

Anonymous (ACU0112)

Attempting to establish contact

“I decided I would try to find my mother as the law allowed. I had to go for 3 interviews with Social Services just to apply for my original birth certificate. They gave me incorrect info regarding my mother. Said she was 21 and not Irish as I had been told by my adopted mother. They told me they could give me no help in tracing my mother. I felt I had to pass a suitability test just to know who I was.”

Anonymous (ACU0020)

“Another very difficult thing to hear from my mother was that she had searched for me. She had desperately wanted to find me and had done everything in her power to find out where I was including going through the records at [redacted] House. All to no avail, she was told that all she could do was leave her details on my file should I ever come looking. I will never understand this. Why was she not allowed to at least know that I was alive and safe? How incredibly cruel. It brings tears to my eyes to think of how that must have felt for her, knowing I was out there somewhere, possibly in the next street or possibly on the other side of the world.”

Anonymous (ACU0081)

“Under the adoption legislation of the time, the adoption was deemed full and final, that there would be no contact. What if my daughter didn't know she had been adopted? There was, after all, no requirement for her to have been told and I had no right to approach mediation services”

Anonymous (ACU0115)

Long-term impact

“I am angry that adoption practices allowed me to be handed over to unfit adopters. I am angry that society, professionals, and adoption practices at that time caused my birth mother so much pain, trauma, and life-long shame. I feel an adoption apology to acknowledge the huge impact of forced adoption on birth mothers and their children who were adopted is long overdue.”

Anonymous (ACU0046)

“None of us me, my birth mother, and adopted parents received support or counselling. There was nothing. We were all just left to get on with it it’s only from having a friend who is a fellow adoptee of the same age (with similar issues) that I have researched the effects of how being adopted impacts on one’s self-esteem and ability to bond with others. But I continue to feel like a dirty unworthy secret.”

Anonymous (ACU0074)

“I was severed from my birth family, and they were severed from me. I was prevented access to familiar faces and the people that I look like. I didn’t have information pertinent to familial medical history. I grew up without the facts surrounding my life. I was raised with the knowledge that I am adopted, although my experience of dialogue around my adoption is shut-down. It is not talked about. Adoption has deeply impacted on my sense of self, my self-esteem, my relationships to others, and my relationship to the world.”

Harry Barnett (ACU0091)

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Education Committee - The Child Protection System in EnglandWritten evidence submitted by John Hemming MP, Justice for Families

1. I founded the Justice for Families campaign in 2006 in a response to the number of people contacting me with problems which arose from care proceedings in England. Justice for Families assists people facing problems with the care system by offering advice on taking cases though the domestic courts and to the European Court of Human Rights. Justice for Families currently has over a thousand cases. These are my personal views.

2. England’s child protection system is in crisis. Perhaps the most obvious symptom of this is in the large numbers of vacancies in the profession and the anecdotal reports of burnout amongst practitioners. At the same time families have left the country to get away from the system and increasing numbers of children are dying from suspected child abuse and neglect. Ofsted’s records of serious childcare incident notifications went up from 47 baby deaths in 2008 to 75 baby deaths in 2009. This was accompanied by a substantial increase in the numbers of children being taken into care.

3. The problem is that the system takes the wrong children into care. Inherently the quality of practice will vary. Some practitioners may be very cautious before taking a child into care particularly given the outcomes for children in care. Others may take a more gung ho approach. If, however, the care system gets overloaded with children resource constraints will inevitably have an effect. The costs are also an issue. Similar sums could provide a lot more support.

4. Haringey, like many authorities, had a target for the number of children in care which was kept for budgetary purposes. The target for March 2007 was 365 and for March 2008 352. In part the objective of reducing numbers in care is laudable as well of that of trying to reduce the weekly costs which have run at higher than £800 per child per week. On 3 October 2006 it was noted that the deficit forecast for Haringey Local Council was £4.6 million which included a forecast overspend for Children’s Services of £2.3 million including a figure of £500K for Looked After Children. The Executive Member for Finance said “I will be working closely with the services concerned and I will be looking to them to identify ways to bring the budget back on target”. It was recognised at that time that the placements budget was running at 381 children and was very tight. The figure then crept up to 392 by November 2006.

5. By 31 March 2007 the financial situation had improved although there had still been an overspend of £500K on legal fees. The numbers of children in care had reduced and a new target was set of 352. In March at the end of the 2007–08 financial year, however, the numbers of children in care had increased back up to 373 (21 more than budget). It appears that controls on the number of care proceedings were tightened up in November 2006 with the 12 month rolling number from November 2006 going below 40 for the first time they were released in August 2007 and the number then went back up above 50 (where historically it has been in recent years) in September 2007.

6. From this can be seen how the care system can be influenced by budgetary constraints. At a senior management level the details of cases are not considered. Managers are instructed to get certain numbers to change. Whilst BV163 was in operation managers were instructed to increase the numbers of children adopted. This was a pressure from central government that occurred not taking into consideration what effect this had on children and families. Managerial success was determined on the basis of the numbers rather than how well children had been cared for.

7. The child protection system in England is particularly obsessed with adoption. What is worse is that not only was the system driven by financial targets for increasing the number of adoptions, but also that it was driven by a mathematical error in the calculations as to what proportion of children were adopted.

8. There are many reports that show the error made by the government, but a good example is Alan Rushton’s paper “Outcomes of adoption from public care: research and practice issues” published in Advances in Psychiatric Treatment (2007) 13: 305–311. In this paper he says “Adoption from care concerns just a small proportion (6%) of all looked after children in England (Department for Education and Skills, 2005) and so remains a relatively uncommon solution to the needs of these young people.”

9. The mathematical error made by the department is that they are comparing the number of children adopted (3,800 in 2004–05) to the number of children in care (about 63,000) rather than the number that came into care in that year (7,700). Of the 7,700 taken into care in 2005 1,700 were aged over 10. Those children are normally taken into care because their parents cannot cope. Hence of the 6,000 that could potentially be adopted some 3,800 are actually adopted. That is more like 60% than 6%.

10. Unsurprisingly a large number of these adoptions break down. Research by people such as Alan Rushton finds disrupted adoptions run at around 20–25%. These fail often because the children that are adopted exhibit very difficult behaviour. Anecdotal evidence also suggests that many adoptive parents are not given full understanding of the child’s background and behavioural difficulties before the adoption is completed. There also seems to be a perception among some adoptive parents that once they are abandoned by both CAMHS and the LA being left to cope alone with these behaviours.

11. What is particularly sad is that a large proportion of the children who are adopted are removed at a very early age from their birth family. Research by Professor Michael Rutter points to the key months for a baby being six to 18 months. In 2004–05 1,770 babies were taken into care before this period.

12. The evidence in terms of attachment disorders and particularly reactive attachment disorders, therefore, for these children is that this is caused by the way they are treated whilst in care. Professor Rutter’s research demonstrates that the children can recover from difficulties from a lack of love and attention in the first six months of life, but not so readily from that in the following 12 months.

13. Reactive Attachment disorder is often misdiagnosed as autism. Children who have this problem have difficult behaviour that the authorities provide little support for and then when the children get old enough their behaviour is so difficult that their adoptive parents cannot cope and they go back into care.

14. A figure of 20% of adoptions failing would give some 800 children every year who are coming back into care. What I find particularly dreadful is that a number of those are children whose problems are caused by their treatment in care.

15. At the same time we have children removed at birth for inadequate causes. It is obvious from the figures as to increasing numbers of deaths (sent to Ofsted) that the crystal ball used by practitioners to predict the future (such as likely emotional abuse) is not spotting the children at risk of dying as a result of abuse.

16. Before going into the issue of potential changes I will look specifically at the issues raised by the committee:  Whether the child protection system allows for effective identification of, and early help to, children at risk of different forms of abuse and exploitation (including, but not restricted to: neglect, sexual and physical abuse, domestic violence, forced marriage, female genital mutilation, child trafficking and online exploitation)

17. The current system has low thresholds that allow a very large number of interventions. The interventions that actually happen, therefore, tend to be driven in part by a mixture of budgetary limits and chance.

18. The phrases “neglect” and “physical abuse” are far too vague. One constituency case I have relates to a debate as to whether or not a child has been smacked. The damage that has been done to the family as a result of the intervention goes much further than any potential harm to the child.

19. If low thresholds are allowed for intervention then this places a strain on the system and does not allow a proper triage system to operate.

20. “Emotional abuse” is far too much of catch all category. Children suffer some psychological trauma from being taken into care. Hence before a child should be taken into care for “emotional abuse” there has to be a very high threshold. It would be useful to have a longditudinal study of cases of children removed from families for emotional abuse to identify if this benefits the child.

Factors affecting the quality of decision-making in referral and assessment, and variations across the country

21. There are far too few guidelines for decision-making. This gives rise to a wide variation in thresholds. One mother who has had over nine children removed by one authority has recently been allowed to go home and look after her child by a different authority.

Appropriate thresholds for intervention, including arguments for and against removing children from their families

22. This is a matter that requires detailed work as referred to above and formal guidance from the government.  Whether the child protection policies and practices of non-social work agencies and Government departments assist professionals to work together in the interests of the child

23. There are far too many compulsory referrals which means that the children’s services departments have to do a lot of triage work. There needs to be clear guidance as to when intervention is warranted and this should guide both social work agencies and non-social work agencies.

Solutions

Firstly, there need to be some general principles

Design a system for real people

24. We need to move away from an approach that looks for scapegoats and aims to punish people for making errors. Child protection is a complex environment where subtle judgments need to be made. Too much pressure on the individual making the judgments results in a number of unacceptable outcomes. Firstly, people decide they do not want to do the job hence lots of vacancies. Secondly, defensive decision-making occurs and finally there is a tendency to try to cover up mistakes rather than learn from them.

25. Care should add value to the child’s life and the parents are actually often the best people to monitor that even if they are not directly responsible for the care of the child.

26. The system should aim to be minimally intrusive with supervised parenting as a priority rather than to be avoided.  Have checks and balances that actually work

27. The system has many so called checks and balances. However, because of the pressures there is a tendency not to correct early mistakes. This creates a culture in which once a decision has been taken an overwhelming effort goes into implementing the decision and too little thought goes into reviewing whether the original decision was right. At the same time it is important that if a decision is changed that no effort goes into punishing the person or people who made the original “wrong” decision. What is needed is that people learn from the process rather than feel they must justify their original decision at all costs.

Operate on an evidenced basis with guidelines

28. There are no real guidelines or law as to what warrants intervention, when parenting is “good enough” or how people fail or pass assessments. This results in an overly wide individual interpretation which is only marginally evidence based. The large numbers of disrupted adoptions show that the main policy underpinning the English system is failing for large numbers of children every year.

Don’t have too much bureaucracy and targets

29. Numerical targets for subtle issues of judgment don’t help. Even having a simplistic target for a timescale within which to do an assessment really doesn’t help. The systems used for recording information should be driven by the job rather than performance indicators. Targets have done substantial damage to judgment.

Given the general principles there need to be specific changes

Move away from a legally dominated system and strengthen the case conference

30. The case conference should be the key location in which decisions are taken. This should not require lawyers although parties may have advocates in meetings. The objective of the case conference should be to look inquisitorially for the best way forward for the children and the families with a view towards what potential solutions exist on a co-operative basis.

31. The practitioners of various disciplines should be allowed to cast a secret ballot as to the conclusion. There may be a merit in bringing in a small number of independent individuals as jurors to balance out the process. This could include members of the extended family. Furthermore proceedings should be video recorded and a copy kept.

32. The case conference, however, has to operate in a truly independent manner with a chair who is not financially dependent upon the local authority. It can also be used to control contact arrangements.

Independent has to mean truly independent

33. One problem area is that many individuals are described as being independent when they are in practice not independent. An expert appointed jointly by the parties depends upon all of the parties. The refusal of second opinions means that it is the decision as to which expert is appointed that generally the determinant of the outcome of the case. Contentious issues such as SBS are ones where specific experts are known to have specific views.

34. Social Workers regularly “advocate for the child” in lobbying experts as to what they expect the conclusion to be from a particular report. It would not be surprising if a local authority were to oppose the appointment of an expert with whom they had previously had difficulties. Hence experts have to keep the local authority sweet.

Have a merits review case conference

35. There needs to be one or two tiers of independent reviewing of the decisions of the case conference. This needs to occur outside the management of the local authority responsible for the original case conference.

36. The problem with the judicial processes is that they have substantial costs which do not exist and are not accessible for people without advice.
Scrap the adoption panels

37. It is unclear what added value arises from the adoption panels. Some evidence is needed as to whether they improve decision-making. Such a large proportion of adoptions are disrupted that it is clear that decision-making goes badly wrong. Adoption panels are made up of lay people who are presented with large quantities of often complex paperwork at a late stage. They normally rely on the social worker who wrote it to guide them through the report and although searching questions are asked this brings into question the true independence of the panel. Further the chair is usually an employee of the LAs children’s department.

Scrap targets and improve case handling.

38. If the performance indicators are scrapped then some of the problems with the ICS are resolved. Record keeping needs to facilitate the process whereby matters are taken to the case conference and through merits reviews. It is important that the recording process identifies allegations that are agreed by parties to the case and also those that are contested. Too many cases are based upon shifting sands and shifting arguments.

Have longitudinal research and feedback

39. The current system has a database called SSDA903 that could be used for more effective research. However the previous government refused to research the numbers of adoptions that were disrupted. Independent audit of a small number of cases on a longitudinal basis is needed for feedback as to changes in practice.

40. There are quite a few cases where children continually run away from foster care to get back to their parents. Detailed review of these is needed to understand whether the actions taken by the state are really any benefit to the children.

Have better categorization of cases for budgetary purposes

41. There will always be budgetary problems. In the current climate questions should be asked as to whether cases based upon “emotional abuse” warrant intervention. However, there needs to be a finer analysis of cases so that when budgetary decisions are made there is some understanding as to their impact.

Facilitate independent scrutiny

42. There needs to be more independent accountability as to what is happening in care cases. Judges should not have control over what is released in respect of the cases that they handle. This should be handled by the information commissioner’s office. Material that does not identify any human parties should be assumed to be to general publication with the permission of a party as long as the parties are kept anonymous. The process should require parties to tell other parties that which they wish to publish and to copy this to the information commissioner. After two weeks they should have deemed consent.

Replace “risk of significant harm” with Article 8.

43. The question as to when intervention is handled is better phrased in Article 8 of the European Convention on Human Rights than Section 31. Article 8 builds in a balancing act that is not built into Section 31 of the 1989 Act.

Review the merits of forced adoption

44. The existence of forced adoption as an option creates a major tension between parents and practitioners. Those countries with forced adoption also have higher levels of deaths from child abuse and neglect. Removing the option of forced adoption could align the interests of parents and practitioners and in doing so improve the outcomes for children.

Use standard of proof between balance of probabilities and beyond reasonable doubt.

45. Many practitioners use the “real possibility” standard of proof which is basically to try to disprove an allegation and if you fail to disprove the allegation then it is considered proven. This is a disastrous approach as it results in many matters being accepted as fact for which there is no evidence. Training needs to be given to stop this from happening.

Don’t increase the levels of qualifications

46. There is no evidence that requiring degree level qualifications in social work has improved the situation more important than qualifications are life skill gained over a number of years bringing to the practitioner a rooted common sense approach which is lacking in the current system. What may improve the position is extra on the job training before becoming fully qualified. There has been a deficit of suitable places available to degree students over the last few years and if the degree is going to continue as a necessity, then this needs to be addressed.

Don’t reorganize the departments

47. The initial Laming reform that completely reorganized social services has probably been counter productive, but reversing those reforms is probably not warranted.

Review specifically how to handle Domestic Violence issues

48. There needs to be a detailed review into how child protection issues are managed within situations which involve domestic violence.
Reading Parents their rights

49. Currently in care proceedings there is no vehicle for ensuring that parents are aware of their rights regarding the law and child protection. Nor are parents aware that when they have an argument with their spouse, then that constitutes “emotional harm” and can result in their child being adopted.

October 2011

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Research / Forced Adoption
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https://childprotectionresource.online/forced-adoption/

Forced Adoption

Here we look at the concept of ‘forced adoption’

I am a passionate believer in the value of adoption in appropriate circumstances.  But I fear that, in making all those orders, I never gave much attention to the emotional repercussions of them. In particular I fear that I failed fully to appreciate that an adoption order is not just a necessary arrangement for the upbringing of some children… the order is an act of surgery which cuts deep into the hearts and minds of at least four people and will effect them, to a greater or lesser extent, every day of their lives…

Lord Wilson Denning Society Lecture 13th November 2014

‘Forced adoption’  is a phrase we often hear used by people like Ian Josephs  and the former MP John Hemming  We have provided links to their sites under their names but we hope that if you visit their sites, you will also stay here and read what we have to say.  See this post for discussion of the case law which judges have to consider before agreeing to any care plan for adoption. See this post for general discussion of the law around adoption and placement orders.
 
The debate begins

The historical development of adoption in England and Wales

Adoption is the means by which a child’s legal relationship with his birth parents is eliminated and the child becomes a legal member of a new family. Adoption did not become law in England and Wales until the Adoption Act 1926; some time after the USA, Australia and Canada. Many babies born out of marriage in the Victorian era were ‘farmed out’ or placed with married couples who would pretend the baby was their own.  There were increasing concerns about the lack of regulation of this private adoption industry which led to statutory intervention. Under the Local Government Act 1929, local authorities (LA) were given powers to remove children from parents, if the LA decided they could not care for them.

See this post from the Guardian giving a time line of the history of child protection.

In 1968, 25,000 adoption orders were made, reflecting a society where illegitimacy was still stigmatised, birth control less reliable and welfare benefits less accessible.  In 2014 only about 5000 adoption orders were made. Adoptions now rarely involve babies.  As the President of the Family Division commented at para 15 in the case of N (Children) (Adoption: Jurisdiction) [2015]:  It is important to acknowledge, however, that, whatever the legal theory, practice has changed dramatically over the 89 years we have had adoption in England. Non- consensual adoption used to be rare, but the position has changed radically. Initially, the courts took a very narrow view indeed of the final limb of section 2(3) of the 1926 Act: see Re JM Caroll [1931] 1 KB 317 and contrast H v H [1947] KB 463. Much more important, the entire focus of adoption has changed dramatically in recent decades. Until the late 1960s, the typical adoption was of an illegitimate child born to a single mother who, however reluctantly, consented to the adoption of her child. Non-consensual adoption was comparatively rare. A combination of dramatic changes in the 1960s the ready availability of the contraceptive pill, the legalisation of abortion, the relaxation of the divorce laws and a sea-change in society’s attitudes to illegitimacy led to a drastic reduction in the number of adoptions of the traditional type. The result of various changes in the system of public childcare, culminating in the implementation in October 1991 of the 1989 Act, has led in recent decades to a correspondingly dramatic increase in the number of non-consensual adoptions. The typical adoption today is of a child who has been made the subject of a care order under the 1989 Act and where parental consent has been dispensed with in accordance with section 52(1)(b) of the 2002 Act.

The often highly polarised debate about ‘forced adoption’ and what this means for child protection work, gained increased traction around 2007 and became the focus of renewed attention towards the end of 2013. This followed discussion of Alessandra Pacchieri  (the ‘forced caesarean case’ ) and media interest in reports of parents wrongly suspected of abusing their children who were actually suffering from various medical conditions.  You can read comment on Ms Pacchieri’s case and the judgment here. The court made an adoption order in relation to her child in April 2014. The case is here. For an explanation of what sparked John Hemming’s interest in the child protection system, see ‘Hemming’s Way’ the article by Jonathan Gornall in 2007.
 
The Conspiracy Theory and allegations of systemic corruption

However, despite the enormous reduction in adoption orders over 40 years, the debate about the entire concept of adoption continues to grow. There have been serious concerns about the child protection system for many years. Those unhappy with the UK’s approach to ‘forced adoption’  raised their concerns in November 2014 with the European Parliament’s Petition Committee.  In fact, it was this 2013 ‘forced adoption’ debate that encouraged us to set up this resource as we were concerned that a lot of justifiable criticism about the system was getting lost or taken over by those who wanted to believe the more extreme ‘conspiracy theories’  i.e. that the entire system was corrupt and that social workers are paid bonuses to snatch babies from loving homes.  For a sad example of the damage that can be done to a parent’s chances of keeping their family together, by  a ‘siege mentality’ and belief that concerns about their parenting are fuelled by a conspiracy, see Hertfordshire County Council v F & Others [2014] EWHC 2159.  We have attempted to debunk some of the more specific myths here and in particular the frequently made assertion that adoption targets exist to take babies away, rather than to promote finding adoptive families for children who have already been through care proceedings and don’t have a permanent home.  People who are unhappy with the current child protection system often refer to it as a system of ‘forced adoption’ which is almost unique in Europe.  However, this assertion is not supported by the 2015 Report by the Committee on Social Affairs, Health and Sustainable Development from the Council of Europe which notes that adoptions without parental consent are possible in Andorra, Croatia, Estonia, Georgia, Germany, Hungary, Italy, Montenegro, Norway, Poland, Slovenia, Sweden and Turkey.  A further 7 countries permit adoption without parental consent in ‘rare’ circumstances. See further, this post from the Transparency Project. See also this post from Claire Fenton-Glynn confirming that EVERY European country has a mechanism to provide for adoption without parental consent.  They say that children are taken from parents for no good reason in order to meet LA’s ‘adoption targets’ set by various Governments and this is shown by the increased numbers of children being taken into care.  It is further alleged that family courts are secret and people who try to speak out will be sent to prison. Parents aren’t allowed to see the evidence against them and lawyers, experts and Judges are all in each other’s pockets and just rubber stamp the decisions made by the LA and social workers.  There are many on line groups for parents who are convinced that their children were removed on the basis of deliberate lies. The view expressed here is typical:  UK Social Services/CAFCASS are the most prolific and serious perpetrators of Domestic Violence in the country. UK Family Law Courts a close second. One day, history lessons will describe the horrific details of what is happening to families all across the country. The descendants of those who have perpetrated this abuse, will be ashamed of their ancestors and try to distance themselves from them….

Worries about social work practice come from a variety of sources. Colin Brewer wrote in the Spectator in the aftermath of the Rotherham child sex abuse scandal:  The Rotherham report suggests, as June and I suggested 34 years ago, that social workers excel at empathy but lack the ability to carry out ‘coherently planned action’. Social work with troubled teenagers is doubtless even more challenging today than it was in the 1980s, yet the report’s conclusions reveal many of the unhelpful institutional and ideological features that we identified are still with us.  It seems these were not just individual failures, occasional and regrettable exceptions in a generally efficient professional culture, but a persistent feature of a profession that emphasises doing good rather than doing it efficiently. This happens despite the fact that social workers have relatively modest case loads, especially compared with doctors.

These are not fanciful concerns. We should all be interested in the state of our child protection services. However, while we accept that sadly there have been serious examples of injustice we don’t accept that this is a result of deliberate corruption within the system itself, or chasing after ‘adoption targets’.  What is clear is that a growing number of people DO believe exactly that. We need to understand why and what we can do about it.
 
Adoption Targets: How did this belief take hold? do they exist, and what impact do they have?

In 2000, the government introduced a national target to increase the number of children adopted from care by at least 40% between 1999-2000 and 2004-5. Tony Blair had been horrified by the numbers of children who remained in care for long periods of time without a permanent home.  Therefore, these were not targets to take children from their homes in order to get them adopted but a well intentioned attempt to help children who were already in the care system and hadn’t been found a permanent home.  Claire Fenton-Glynn describes the situation in her study on the UK system, presented to the European Parliament in June 2015:  The Prime Minister’s Review of Adoption in 2000 put forward the belief that the system was not delivering the best for children, as decisions about how to provide a secure, stable and permanent family were not addressed early enough. As such, it advocated an increase in the use of adoption to provide children with permanency at an earlier stage. The Review gave the opinion that there was too great a focus on rehabilitation with the birth family, at the expense of the child’s welfare. It emphasised that the first choice should always be a return to the birth family, but where this was clearly not an option, adoption should be seen as a key means of providing permanence. Foster care, on the other hand, was viewed as a transitional measure, which should be used only as a temporary option.  Following on from this, the government produced a White Paper entitled Adoption: A New Approach, which outlined the government’s plan to promote the wider use of adoption for looked after children, establishing the target of increasing adoption by 40-50 per cent by 2004-2005.39 The White Paper also announced that the government would require local authorities to make a plan for permanence returning home, placement for adoption, or special guardianship40 – for a child within 6 months of being continuously looked after.  It was in this context that the Adoption and Children Act 2002 was introduced, with the explicit aim of promoting the greater use of adoption. The Act changed the process of adoption itself, by making the welfare of the child the paramount consideration for courts and adoption agencies in all decisions relating to adoption, including in deciding whether to dispense with the birth parents’ consent to adoption.

The Government’s official position about targets to get children taken into care is clear: they don’t exist. Matthew Dalby of  the Ministerial and Public Communications Division of the Department of Education said in October 2014, in response to an email from a parent:  I must explain that there are no targets on the numbers of children in care. In fact the law is clear in that children should live with their parents wherever possible and that families should be given extra support to help keep them together. In most cases, support from the local authority (LA) enables concerns to be addressed and children to remain with their families.

The Transparency Project responded in September 2015 to John Hemming’s assertion that the London Borough of Merton has ‘targets’ to take children from their birth families. There are certainly concerns that ‘key performance indicators’ promoting adoption could risk impacting on the integrity of decision making for individual children. This was analysed in more detail after receiving responses to FOI requests to councils in England and Wales see the report of the Transparency Project in November 2016. Some of the responses raised concern that reliance on ‘adoption targets’ by some councils in England, could lead decisions being made about children to meet targets, rather than promote their welfare.

Judicial response to allegations of systemic corruption

John Hemming raised very specific allegations about the corruption in the family courts in the case of RP v Nottingham [2008] which were rejected by Wall LJ as being without evidence:  97. It is plain to me from these documents, that in addition to the allegations set out above, Mr. Hemming believes that HJ was in the pay of the local authority and thus was “the local authority’s expert”. For good measure, he asserts that the system is “evil” and that “there does seem to be little concern in the legal profession about the reliability of opinion offered in court.”. The clear implication behind the “witch findings” items on the website set out at paragraph 95 above is that “experts” like HJ are in it for the money; that they are happy to “manufacture ‘evidence'”; and that they are in receipt of “phoney” letters of instruction. The result, Mr Hemming asserts is a “disaster”.  98. In my judgment, these comments are not only wrong and ill-informed; the simple fact remains that they have no foundation in the evidence presented either to the Nottingham County Court or to this court. That they are made publicly by Mr Hemming once again strikes me as an abuse of his position.

Wall LJ went on to say at para 127:  In my judgment, the arguments advanced by Mr Hemming in this case are ill-informed and tendentious. They are contradicted by the evidence, and must be rejected. I think this most unfortunate. Nobody who works in the Family Justice System regards it as perfect: most of us see it as under-resourced and struggling to deal with the work loads thrust upon it. Constructive criticism, particularly from those in a position to bring about change, is to be welcomed. I am myself in no doubt that the system must change and adapt, and I have spoken many times in public in support of my belief that there needs to be greater transparency in order to combat the partial, tendentious and inaccurate criticisms made against the system. I therefore welcome the opportunity provided by this case to demonstrate that the system has operated properly, and that the criticisms made are unfounded.

The Law of Unintended Consequences Campaigners reject the ‘official’ position

However, following the introduction of targets to speed up finding a home for children in care, some then argue that the ‘law of unintended consequences’  came into play and these targets acted to promote undesirable behaviour from those in the child protection system.  John Hemming has argued that these targets did little to help the older children already in care but rather had the effect of encouraging local authorities to issue care proceedings with regard to more ‘adoptable’ children so they would filter through the system, end up adopted quickly and improve the adoption rates.  This was denied at the time; see this report from BBC News On Line in 2008:  The Children’s Minister Kevin Brennan has denied claims that young children are being taken into care by local authorities to meet adoption targets. Mr Brennan has written to two national newspapers to say there has never been any financial incentive for councils to meet national adoption targets. The claims surfaced over the case of a baby in Nottingham placed into care just hours after being born. Liberal Democrat MP John Hemming has accused the council of baby-stealing.  In a letter to The Times and The Daily Mail, Mr Brennan says there were national adoption targets designed to place more children in care into loving, family homes. But, he writes, “they ended in 2006; and there was never a financial incentive for local authorities to meet these national targets.”

The belief that children are removed from loving homes in order for LA’s to meet their ‘adoption targets’ persists to date.  There is no doubt that this version of events feels very ‘right’ to a significant number of people.  As Claire Fenton-Glynn comments:  While national adoption targets were set for some years, these ceased in 2006. The government emphasised that targets were intended to make sure more children who had been adjudged to need an adoptive placement were found permanent homes. They were not intended to affect the judgment of whether the child was in need of an adoption. However, despite the government’s statements, there is a danger that such targets do impact on such an evaluation, or at the very least, create the perception that they do so. Moreover, the government’s focus on adoption risks disadvantaging those children in care for whom adoption is not suitable. In the year ending 31 March 2014, only 16% of children who left the English care system were adopted, with others returning home, being placed with relatives, or with a special guardian, among other options. As such, an excessive focus on adoptive placements can mean that these others do not receive sufficient attention.

So what is really going on?

There are a number of elements we need to look at to try and work out whether assertions about a deliberately corrupt system contain any truth. Without doubt, the child protection system is not working well. We need to think more deeply why that is.

*  The continuing and repeating pressures on the child protection system which lead to growing distrust between parents and professionals;
*  The cost of care proceedings why would a LA bear these costs without very good reason?
*  What do the statistics tell us about adoption rates for babies or very young children?
*  Adoption rates are now set to fall in the aftermath of the judgment in Re B-S.

 
A system under pressure

Helping children is a human process. When the bureaucratic aspects of work become too dominant, the heart of the work is lost.

The Munro Review of Child Protection Final Report

We consider the  history of concerns about the child protection system in more detail in this post. In brief, it seems that for very many years the system has become overwhelmed by the demands placed upon it. Excessive bureaucracy, dangerously high caseloads and low morale amongst social workers combine to work against good decision making and protecting children.  Some argue that it is the Children Act 1989 itself that has contributed to the problems, as it has pushed the law into ever less measurable levels of ‘abuse’ rather than setting out realistically measurable standards to govern the protection of children.  The fact that the system is under considerable strain and pressure is a serious problem for us all but it is not evidence of deliberate malignity on the part of those decision makers. 
 
The cost of care proceedings

It seems odd to suggest that LA deliberately set out to target children to adopt to ‘make money’ when you consider just how much care proceedings will cost them.  Research from the University of Bristol in 2011 said this:  Bringing care proceedings is a costly and time consuming business for local authorities. It has been estimated that each care case takes up 20 per cent of a full-time social worker’s working hours for a year (Plowden 2009). In addition, the local authority will have to contribute towards independent assessments ordered by the court and may need to instruct barristers (counsel) to represent it at court. In order to ensure that proceedings are used only where the local authority can prove its case and court orders are required, as well as to control expenditure, local authorities have established internal procedures for approving court applications. Legal advice and senior management approval are generally required even where an application if made for an order to remove or detain a child in an emergency (Masson et al 2007; DCSF 2008, para 3.3).

However, some will assert that the cost of care proceedings is actually an illustration of the problem it’s a ‘gravy train’, keeping lawyers, social workers and experts in employment.  So if the financial burden on the LA does not reassure people that care proceedings are not taken lightly, what can we see from the statistics about children taken into care?

If Hemming and others are right, we should see a clear rise from 2000 in the number of babies or very young children taken into care and then adopted.
 
Lies, damned lies and statistics

We argue that the statistics do NOT support an argument that more babies and young ‘adoptable’ children have been targeted since 2000, although it is clear that the number of children being adopted has been rising. However, we agree that there are reasons for concern over a general ‘push’ for adoption as a ‘good thing’ that may lead to compromising the integrity of decisions made about children.  There is now considerable interest in the statistics around adoption and placement orders, so we consider this in detail in another post.
 
Why we reject the allegation of systemic corruption

Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity.

The court judgments, culminating in Re B-S that have so concerned Martin Narey were right to point out the dangers of sloppy analysis. But why had some cases got into such a mess?  Because the system was ‘evil’, the social workers were telling lies to get their bonuses and that all the lawyers and judges closed their eyes to this because its actually a government policy?

Or is it more likely , that what we have is a child protection system that is often inefficient and/or overwhelmed by case loads? where mistakes are made, but rarely due to deliberate malice?

The conspiracy theories take hold because they feel ‘right’ to a lot of people who may have good cause to feel that they have not been listened to or treated fairly. This can lead people to  be unable or unwilling to consider a reality which does not accord with their strongly held perceptions:

*  People say: “Let the facts speak for themselves”; they forget that the speech of facts is real only if it is heard and understood. It is thought to be an easy matter to distinguish between fact and theory, between perception and interpretation. In truth, it is extremely difficult.

For further fascinating discussion about the impact of cognitive bias and how hard it is to get people to abandon their narratives, even if they are based on a false premise, see this article ‘Your Brain is Primed to Reach False Conclusions’.
 
What is our reality?

We have not been able to find evidence to support the assertion that the child protection system is designed and maintained deliberately to be corrupt or ‘evil’. Recent research from Cafcass says that LAs were right to make applications for care orders in 80% of cases they reviewed.  But that of course does not mean the system is perfect. Far from it. If 80% of cases are ‘right’ we still have 20% which are not and that is worrying. There are also serious concerns that an ideological ‘push’ for adoption is masking proper consideration of statistical trends.  We agree with that justice needs to be seen to be done and there should be as much openness as possible about such serious matters.

*  We accept that there can be serious consequences when a system is overwhelmed by cases; individual practitioners may lack support, and there is a risk of bad or even no decisions getting made. There is a particularly sad example of that in the case of A and S in 2012 where the boys’ Independent Reviewing Officer had a case load three times in excess of that recommended by good practice.
*  Sometimes mistakes are made because lawyers and doctors got it wrong about the medical evidence. Here is an example of a case where the court decided there wasn’t enough evidence to conclude that a child suffered non accidental injuries as this child also had rickets due to Vitamin D deficiency.
*  There is no doubt that the Government wishes to speed up the adoption process and there are legitimate concerns about how the new Children and Families Act 2014 will operate. See further this article by Cathy Ashley of the Family Rights Group and here for the views of Barnados on the need to speed up adoptions.
*  We note the conclusions of the the Report of the Committee on Social Affairs, Health and Sustainable Development of the Council of Europe which was concerned by the high numbers of children in England and Wales who were adopted without parental consent, and commented (see para 74) that the UK’s refusal to reverse adoption orders where there had been a miscarriage of justice was a ‘misunderstanding’ of the best interests of the child, who had a right to return to his birth family.
*  Possibly the most serious problem is that social workers in child protection work are asked to wear ‘two hats’ at the same time they are tasked with supporting families at the same time as they are gathering evidence against them. The tension and difficulties inherent in this dual role are obvious. See Wrennall, L. 2004 Miscarriages of Justice in Child Protection: a brief history and proposals for change.

But what we don’t accept is that these problems as serious as they undoubtedly are can legitimately lead to a conclusion that the whole system is corrupt and operating to ‘steal children’ to meet government endorsed targets.  We think it would be a great shame for children and parents if legitimate debate about problems in the system is overwhelmed by allegations that have no basis in fact and which serve only to make parents even more worried and frightened about what the system might ‘do’ to them and their children.
 
The Way Forward.

However, we accept that it is odd, if adoption really is the ‘gold standard’ for children that other jurisdictions do not seem to share the UK’s enthusiasm for adoption without the parents’  consent.   We should always be open to more discussion and debate about what we should be doing to secure the welfare of children.  You may be interested in this post describing the different approach in Finland, where children who are taken into care will Iive with foster families or in institutional care.  You may also be interested in this article by an adoptive parent in the Guardian from 2012, discussing the difficulties caused by lack of post adoption support.  There are also concerns expressed by adoptive parents that they haven’t been given the full picture about their children’s backgrounds and this has caused enormous problems for the family.

*  We agree that everyone who works in the system should be aware of the dangers of an insular or paternalistic approach to child protection issues.
*  We agree that adoption may not be the best plan for every child and there should not be an automatic assumption that adoption is best. There is an interesting article criticising ‘adoption driven systems’ here.
*  However, we think for many children subject to a final care order, it will represent their best chance of achieving a stable and loving home throughout their childhood.
*  We agree that placements with family members should continue to be investigated thoroughly.
*  We also agree that we need more consideration to how we support adoptive placements after an order is made as studies show the breakdown rates for adoptions can be as high as 25%. There is interesting research from the US here which looks at rates of adoption disruption and why they break down. Research published on April 9th 2014 by the University of Bristol offers another perspective on adoption disruption rates, concluding that they are low but emphasising the importance of post adoption support, particularly for older and more challenging children.
*  Social workers need more help to deal with the bureaucracy of their job, so they can focus on working with and supporting families the ‘reclaiming social work’ model needs wider implementation.
*  What we don’t agree with is a debate that polarises around the term ‘forced adoption’ and politicians who advise parents to leave the country rather than engage with social workers.
*  Where we all hopefully agree is that every child has the right to grow up in a safe home and that any child protection investigation must be carried out quickly and fairly.

We hope this site can be part of sharing resources and information to promote open and honest debate about the child protection system.
 
Further Reading

*  You can read here about government sponsored research into the reasons why people are motivated to adopt or foster.
*  You may also be interested in what we say about post adoption contact.
*  Read the transcript of the 9th Annual Debate of the Family Justice Council; Adoption without consent is wrong in principle. November 24th 2015.
*  The debate in Westminster Hall on 25th November 2015 about Forced Adoption.
*  Excellent article from the New Yorker magazine about the history of child protection in the USA.
*  Heads Must Roll? Emotional Politics, the Press and the Death of Baby P Article by Dr Jo Warner, Senior Lecturer in Social Work, School of Social Policy, Sociology and Social Research, University of Kent.
*  Silent crisis of inadequate councils caring for thousands of children The Guardian 18th August 2018
*  Revealed: cash crisis pushing child services to tipping point The Observer 1st Sep 2018
*  Born into care: Newborns in Care Proceedings in England The Nuffield Family Justice Observatory October 2018
*  Tortoise Media have considered and discussed the child protection system in a variety of pieces in 2019. See for example ‘I refused to say goodbye’ which examines some of the stressors on the system and the impact this has on parents.

Key Messages from the Department of Education Research

The Department of Education published ‘Adoption Cases Reviewed: an indicative study of process and practice’ in 2013 which provides a comprehensive review of contested adoption proceedings. Its key messages are set out below. While the review certainly did not find that everything was perfect, it did not conclude there was any evidence of systemic corruption or orders made for trivial reasons:

*  The study confirmed routine local authority and judicial compliance with the required procedural and legal framework for adoption. Parents’ rights to due process in contesting and opposing care, placement and adoption applications were ensured. Decisions were taken by the court in an appropriate way, following the full testing of evidence.

*  Local authority practice in the study cases pre-dated current statutory guidance, in which permanence is required to provide the framework for all social work with children and families. Where it lacked this perspective, social work intervention could not be relied upon to pursue effectively the protection and care planning that might have secured child safety on a permanent basis at home.

*  In addition, quality assurance of child protection and care planning was insufficiently robust.

*  Where risk assessment and protection and care planning lacked confidence and decisiveness, the right of the child to have a safe and permanent family life secured in a timely way could be compromised. Similarly, the right of parents to effective intervention to help them make necessary changes could be neglected where permanence principles were not applied equally to the process of rehabilitation.

*  While no clear pattern of contestation emerged in these cases parents often argued that the local authority had sought merely to gather evidence to make the case against them, rather than intervene purposefully to support the changes required to keep the child safely at home.

*  Extensive use of independent expert evidence and advice provided a guarantee that harm and risk had been assessed fully and decisions appropriately informed, once the case was in proceedings. However, the use of experts also caused duplication and delay. Current proposals for reform will need to ensure such evidence is deployed effectively within the sharper case management regime.

*  This study suggests that the enhancement and quality assurance of the expertise and effectiveness of social work within the inter-agency system should attract policy attention. Timely and proportionate decision making is undermined as much by lack of case management continuity and of grip in making a judgement about parents’ capacity to change in the local authority as it is in the court.

*  The reform process should be underpinned by a review of the philosophy, organisation and support of local authority case management in protection and care planning, to ensure reliability of compliance with current statutory guidance that a permanence perspective is employed as a matter of routine.

*  The reform process should also include a review of the availability and effectiveness of post-placement support for birth parents in all forms of permanent placement, including placement at home.

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