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https://tribune.net.ph/2024/09/27/forced-adoption-victim-seeks-truth-from-pope

Forced adoption victim seeks truth from pope
Lieve Soens was a product of birth under X system.

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Sep 27, 2024, 17:39

KUURNE, Belgium (AFP) — The stain of Catholic child abuse looms over Pope Francis’ visit to Belgium this week, but a lesser-known scandal still roils the country: the “forced adoption” of newborns taken from their mothers, with nuns’ complicity.  Lieve Soens was adopted by a Belgian couple in 1974, shortly after she was born in Dunkirk, northern France, to a woman who opted to remain anonymous under a system known as giving birth “under X.”  Now 50, Soens is still trying to understand how her biological mother a teenager at the time was taken by nuns from Lommel in Belgium to Dunkirk, more than 200 kilometers away, to deliver a baby she would never see again.  In her decades-long quest to find her roots, Soens had the support of her adoptive parents.  They were convinced, she says, that they were doing the right thing by taking in an unwanted baby.  They showed her documents from 1974 including her birth certificate mentioning her adoption and change of name, and a bill from the private clinic where she was born.  After they passed away some 20 years ago, she ramped up her efforts.  “I don’t want to hurt anyone, I just want the truth,” she said, while acknowledging her “anger towards the Church, the nuns and the clinic” who all played a role.

Soens is among the guests expected on Friday at Laeken palace, the royal residence where Francis is to deliver a speech to the Belgian nation.

Church apology

In 2023, the Flemish newspaper Het Laatste Nieuws published the hard-hitting testimony of multiple victims of forced adoption, including a mother whose newborn had been taken from her.  The paper’s investigation estimated that Belgian nuns had been involved in around 30,000 such cases between 1945 and 1980.  Most of the births were in Belgium, but 3,000 to 4,000 pregnant women were taken to France. There, the “under X” system erases all filial link between mother and child, said Binnenlands Geadopteerd, a support group for the victims of forced adoptions.  Most cases involved young, unmarried women some of them victims of rape or incest whose parents wanted their pregnancy kept under wraps.  The parents would make contact with Church officials, who provided the link to families wishing to adopt.  The Belgian conference of bishops has formally apologized on several occasions over the scandal when it first erupted in 2015 and again last year.